"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
North Carolina DJs
- Thread starter fender85
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LionFox
Don Juan
LionFox
enkai
Senior Don Juan
Hey I live in Charlotte, him me up on the PM to arrange something if anyones up for it.
AgentAvatar
Guest
Hello Brothers,
I am a DJ / PUA in Raleigh No. Kakalaki.
School is back in session, and it's time to get our game back in session.
I need some local brothers who know how this game is played
to go out with and try some new things with.
Hit me up and lets get it on.
Peace,
-Js
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LionFox
Don Juan
--fender85-- let me know if you are ever coming this way, or if you are in the Charlotte area..
--agentavatar- I'm in Wilmington, and going to raleigh on the weekend is no problem for me.. I'm talking to a chick who lives up there now, but I think she'll flake..
LionFox
Don Juan
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
woot woot! give it up for asheville...yay...
h2o
Banned
i'm from raleigh btw