"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fender85

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anyone out there? i currently live in wilkesboro, but will be moving to charlotte probably next semester. i was just seeing is there were any DJs in the local area.

Chris
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LionFox

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I'm in Wilmington, NC. That's kind of far from your Fender, but not completey out of the picture for a weekend sarge..

LionFox
 

fender85

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hey i'm up for it. i have a friend going down to wilmington for his sophomore year, and another friend who'll probably be down there next year for his sophomore year. but if i'm down that way or if you're ever up this way we should definitely go in on some wingman action. i'm sure i could learn a lot from you. i'm in my recovering jerk stage right now (getting close to don juan. lol), and i'm always up for more experience
 

enkai

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Yo

Hey I live in Charlotte, him me up on the PM to arrange something if anyones up for it.
 
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AgentAvatar

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Fellow NC Brothas Represent

Hello Brothers,
I am a DJ / PUA in Raleigh No. Kakalaki.
School is back in session, and it's time to get our game back in session.
I need some local brothers who know how this game is played
to go out with and try some new things with.
Hit me up and lets get it on. :cool:
Peace,
-Js
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LionFox

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Well, my email is [email protected] if anyone wants to get up with me.

--fender85-- let me know if you are ever coming this way, or if you are in the Charlotte area..

--agentavatar- I'm in Wilmington, and going to raleigh on the weekend is no problem for me.. I'm talking to a chick who lives up there now, but I think she'll flake..
 

LionFox

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Oh, and if anyone is in Myrtle Beach, SC.. let me know..
 

oreo_renegade

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Ass-ville!

woot woot! give it up for asheville...yay...
 

h2o

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welcome to my world
bump

i'm from raleigh btw
 
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