"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fender85

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anyone out there? i currently live in wilkesboro, but will be moving to charlotte probably next semester. i was just seeing is there were any DJs in the local area.

Chris
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LionFox

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I'm in Wilmington, NC. That's kind of far from your Fender, but not completey out of the picture for a weekend sarge..

LionFox
 

fender85

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hey i'm up for it. i have a friend going down to wilmington for his sophomore year, and another friend who'll probably be down there next year for his sophomore year. but if i'm down that way or if you're ever up this way we should definitely go in on some wingman action. i'm sure i could learn a lot from you. i'm in my recovering jerk stage right now (getting close to don juan. lol), and i'm always up for more experience
 

enkai

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Yo

Hey I live in Charlotte, him me up on the PM to arrange something if anyones up for it.
 
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AgentAvatar

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Fellow NC Brothas Represent

Hello Brothers,
I am a DJ / PUA in Raleigh No. Kakalaki.
School is back in session, and it's time to get our game back in session.
I need some local brothers who know how this game is played
to go out with and try some new things with.
Hit me up and lets get it on. :cool:
Peace,
-Js
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LionFox

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Well, my email is [email protected] if anyone wants to get up with me.

--fender85-- let me know if you are ever coming this way, or if you are in the Charlotte area..

--agentavatar- I'm in Wilmington, and going to raleigh on the weekend is no problem for me.. I'm talking to a chick who lives up there now, but I think she'll flake..
 

LionFox

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Oh, and if anyone is in Myrtle Beach, SC.. let me know..
 

oreo_renegade

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Ass-ville!

woot woot! give it up for asheville...yay...
 

h2o

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welcome to my world
bump

i'm from raleigh btw
 
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