amnbyrd
Don Juan
Im 5'7 and 160lbs. Is this normal for my height? Im not fat or anything. Been lifting and taking whey/creatine. Ive noticed my arms getting bigger though I have a lil bit of a gut that I need to work on.
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Normal Weight?
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Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
It would be considered in the normal range for average people.
Still on the lightish end for a weightlifter though. You aren't skinny which is all that really matters, past that do what you want expect getting fat
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Still on the lightish end for a weightlifter though. You aren't skinny which is all that really matters, past that do what you want expect getting fat
.stevera004
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No such thing as 'ideal' ... I like this web site in particular though to calculate an 'ideal' weight:amnbyrd said:
http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.htm
Also, bf% is important, calculate it here:
http://www.he.net/~zone/prothd2.html
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It really depends on how much muscle and body fat you have. I'm 5'6 and 147 and I still have a gut on me. One of the hand held body fat analyzer said I had 15%.
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You and I are about the same height and weight, and I work out, too. There's nothing wrong with your weight. If you want to get bigger than go for it, though.amnbyrd said:
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What's more important is your waist size. It's more important than just judging height and weight.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Alright-I was just thinking I was overweight since I was hearing about ppl taller than me weight a good 20 lbs less.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
That is called skinny. Baddd.amnbyrd said: