amnbyrd
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Im 5'7 and 160lbs. Is this normal for my height? Im not fat or anything. Been lifting and taking whey/creatine. Ive noticed my arms getting bigger though I have a lil bit of a gut that I need to work on.
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Quagmire911
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It would be considered in the normal range for average people.
Still on the lightish end for a weightlifter though. You aren't skinny which is all that really matters, past that do what you want expect getting fat
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Still on the lightish end for a weightlifter though. You aren't skinny which is all that really matters, past that do what you want expect getting fat
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No such thing as 'ideal' ... I like this web site in particular though to calculate an 'ideal' weight:amnbyrd said:
http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.htm
Also, bf% is important, calculate it here:
http://www.he.net/~zone/prothd2.html
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It really depends on how much muscle and body fat you have. I'm 5'6 and 147 and I still have a gut on me. One of the hand held body fat analyzer said I had 15%.
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You and I are about the same height and weight, and I work out, too. There's nothing wrong with your weight. If you want to get bigger than go for it, though.amnbyrd said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What's more important is your waist size. It's more important than just judging height and weight.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Alright-I was just thinking I was overweight since I was hearing about ppl taller than me weight a good 20 lbs less.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
That is called skinny. Baddd.amnbyrd said: