"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Normal Birds on POF

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I realise that there is a lot of fu*ked up birds on POF, but I think now it is becoming
more acceptable to be on a dating website hence more normal birds signing up.

There seems to be a lot more fu*ked up birds on OKC than POF

My point is that I think there is a lot of normal birds on POF now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Espi said:
In my mind there's a HUGE difference between the women you see on free websites like POF versus pay-for sites like Match.

Many women on POF and OKC have NOTHING to lose. They're not investing in anything. So they have nothing to lose.

"You get what you pay for."

I suggest paying the $40 for a one-month subscription to Match. I'm seeing TONS of chicks who are in their late 20's.
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That's a very good point. It should help find something of a decent quality vs some attention wh0re.
 
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No I've met some seemingly wholesome girls on POF that could pass for relationship material. Had one recently who even wanted me to delete my profile for her (!). They are few and far between but I wouldn't say it's fair to stereotype every girl who uses online dating as an attention seeking wh0re. Most woman with class quickly realize what POF is all about and get off the site. Most of my luck comes from snagging their number before they quickly delete their profiles.

What most men fail to realize, is that while we're on there looking for a serious relationship, 80% of the women see online dating as nothing more than a source of entertainment. Hell, as I'm sitting here typing, I just asked a girl on Tinder if she has met many guys and her reply was "No it's just for fun". What a coincidence :crackup:

- Generally speaking - If these women were really looking for relationships, they wouldn't adopt online dating as their new homes. I see the same profiles, same faces, month after month, year after year. With the volumes of emails they get there is NO reason why they can't find a compatible match, and I don't feel sorry for them one bit with their tired cliche headlines of “there’s no good guys out there”.
 
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