"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Normal Birds on POF

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I realise that there is a lot of fu*ked up birds on POF, but I think now it is becoming
more acceptable to be on a dating website hence more normal birds signing up.

There seems to be a lot more fu*ked up birds on OKC than POF

My point is that I think there is a lot of normal birds on POF now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Espi said:
In my mind there's a HUGE difference between the women you see on free websites like POF versus pay-for sites like Match.

Many women on POF and OKC have NOTHING to lose. They're not investing in anything. So they have nothing to lose.

"You get what you pay for."

I suggest paying the $40 for a one-month subscription to Match. I'm seeing TONS of chicks who are in their late 20's.
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That's a very good point. It should help find something of a decent quality vs some attention wh0re.
 
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No I've met some seemingly wholesome girls on POF that could pass for relationship material. Had one recently who even wanted me to delete my profile for her (!). They are few and far between but I wouldn't say it's fair to stereotype every girl who uses online dating as an attention seeking wh0re. Most woman with class quickly realize what POF is all about and get off the site. Most of my luck comes from snagging their number before they quickly delete their profiles.

What most men fail to realize, is that while we're on there looking for a serious relationship, 80% of the women see online dating as nothing more than a source of entertainment. Hell, as I'm sitting here typing, I just asked a girl on Tinder if she has met many guys and her reply was "No it's just for fun". What a coincidence :crackup:

- Generally speaking - If these women were really looking for relationships, they wouldn't adopt online dating as their new homes. I see the same profiles, same faces, month after month, year after year. With the volumes of emails they get there is NO reason why they can't find a compatible match, and I don't feel sorry for them one bit with their tired cliche headlines of “there’s no good guys out there”.
 
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