"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Non-Flake streak broken tonight at 18...

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Ah well...knew it had to happen sooner or later...

Set up a date with a woman a few days ago for tonight, texted her about an hour before that I was running a few minutes late and she responded

"Didn't think we were still on since I hadn't heard from you. Made plans to keep my son tonight"

Was about to go in on her for her passive aggressive behavior and insecurity but I thought better of it and just said

"Typically I just trust the other person knows how to follow through with plans they make. It's cool tho."

Time to start a new streak I guess now...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Surprised the two gentleman above felt the need to call the girl out on her flake - or respond at all. When it's such an obvious flake, the only buttons you should be pressing on your phone are the ones that delete her contact.
 
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Found it a little strange since she is the one who initiated talking with me
 
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