"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Non-Flake streak broken tonight at 18...

BackInTheGame78

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Ah well...knew it had to happen sooner or later...

Set up a date with a woman a few days ago for tonight, texted her about an hour before that I was running a few minutes late and she responded

"Didn't think we were still on since I hadn't heard from you. Made plans to keep my son tonight"

Was about to go in on her for her passive aggressive behavior and insecurity but I thought better of it and just said

"Typically I just trust the other person knows how to follow through with plans they make. It's cool tho."

Time to start a new streak I guess now...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surprised the two gentleman above felt the need to call the girl out on her flake - or respond at all. When it's such an obvious flake, the only buttons you should be pressing on your phone are the ones that delete her contact.
 

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Found it a little strange since she is the one who initiated talking with me
 
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