Infern0
Master Don Juan
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Results from 1 year of nofap pleaseStarting...now for me,
Can I beat my record of 1 year ? hope so
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Results from 1 year of nofap pleaseStarting...now for me,
Can I beat my record of 1 year ? hope so
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeh. I get that. There is a bit of a depression after on occasion. Compared to after banging when, if done right, the is a massive experience of elation.I always speak for myself and from what i've notice, nofap brings only positive effects. I already feel the gap after faping and currently i feel on my lowest potential.
Exactly this. Every time i fck a female, i feel like i can fck everything and that I'm the boss. Testo is on the peak and i can feel only positive things .The exact opposite happens when you fap.Yeh. I get that. There is a bit of a depression after on occasion. Compared to after banging when, if done right, the is a massive experience of elation.
Gonna power through. Day 3. It's good for will-power. Gonna go out at the weekend and get laid as to reward myself!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They have VR porn on the way, good God.Exactly this. Every time i fck a female, i feel like i can fck everything and that I'm the boss. Testo is on the peak and i can feel only positive things .The exact opposite happens when you fap.
Yesterday when i broke my strike , i had some thoughts like "I don't care to fck any chick ever again in my life" and stupid things like this.
Not to mention a huge negativity with everything. I couldn't even focus on simple stuff.
This is how much masturbation fcks you up.
Thinking about these effects, it's not hard to relate masturbation with the increased percentage of feminists in the last decade, I mean i see everywhere on the internet masturbation to be promoted and considered good and it's only going to drain you. I can't think of a better weapon to make every man in the world a miserable fat beta.
Ummmm, 70 relapses kinda sorta doesn't allow you to say you've been on nofap. You don't get the sobriety chip for one year unless it's 365 consecutive days....lolDay 12
I've been on nofap for over a year now but have been very unsuccessful. I have an app that tracks how long its been and I've relapsed over 70 times. This time I finally feel like I'm going to do it.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just say you are giving up.So, Day 9 is completed, but all I've really noticed is an increased sex drive. I'm as horny as a 14 year old. Wouldn't say that it's really making any improvements to my life. I have a pretty much guaranteed lay coming up on Saturday, and I'm beginning to become a little concerned that I will blow my load as soon as I stick it in her, which won't be much fun. Also would say that my standards seem to be decreasing slightly, probably about a point. 6s becoming 7s. 7s becoming 8s. 8s to 9s etc. Gonna drop this early.
Really, if I've learned anything from this, it's that, like anything else in life, masturbation is best in moderation. If you're jerking it 10x a day then you may have a problem and nofap is probably good for you. 2-3 times per week though? You're fine.
Probably true. I still say it's best that you ensure your life has at least one very willing sexual partner so you never have to "take care of yourself", because she desires to.So, Day 9 is completed, but all I've really noticed is an increased sex drive. I'm as horny as a 14 year old. Wouldn't say that it's really making any improvements to my life. I have a pretty much guaranteed lay coming up on Saturday, and I'm beginning to become a little concerned that I will blow my load as soon as I stick it in her, which won't be much fun. Also would say that my standards seem to be decreasing slightly, probably about a point. 6s becoming 7s. 7s becoming 8s. 8s to 9s etc. Gonna drop this early.
Really, if I've learned anything from this, it's that, like anything else in life, masturbation is best in moderation. If you're jerking it 10x a day then you may have a problem and nofap is probably good for you. 2-3 times per week though? You're fine.
Why bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.Just say you are giving up.
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Amen.....they call these people psuedoskepticsWhy bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.