Infern0
Master Don Juan
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Results from 1 year of nofap pleaseStarting...now for me,
Can I beat my record of 1 year ? hope so
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Results from 1 year of nofap pleaseStarting...now for me,
Can I beat my record of 1 year ? hope so
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeh. I get that. There is a bit of a depression after on occasion. Compared to after banging when, if done right, the is a massive experience of elation.I always speak for myself and from what i've notice, nofap brings only positive effects. I already feel the gap after faping and currently i feel on my lowest potential.
Exactly this. Every time i fck a female, i feel like i can fck everything and that I'm the boss. Testo is on the peak and i can feel only positive things .The exact opposite happens when you fap.Yeh. I get that. There is a bit of a depression after on occasion. Compared to after banging when, if done right, the is a massive experience of elation.
Gonna power through. Day 3. It's good for will-power. Gonna go out at the weekend and get laid as to reward myself!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They have VR porn on the way, good God.Exactly this. Every time i fck a female, i feel like i can fck everything and that I'm the boss. Testo is on the peak and i can feel only positive things .The exact opposite happens when you fap.
Yesterday when i broke my strike , i had some thoughts like "I don't care to fck any chick ever again in my life" and stupid things like this.
Not to mention a huge negativity with everything. I couldn't even focus on simple stuff.
This is how much masturbation fcks you up.
Thinking about these effects, it's not hard to relate masturbation with the increased percentage of feminists in the last decade, I mean i see everywhere on the internet masturbation to be promoted and considered good and it's only going to drain you. I can't think of a better weapon to make every man in the world a miserable fat beta.
Ummmm, 70 relapses kinda sorta doesn't allow you to say you've been on nofap. You don't get the sobriety chip for one year unless it's 365 consecutive days....lolDay 12
I've been on nofap for over a year now but have been very unsuccessful. I have an app that tracks how long its been and I've relapsed over 70 times. This time I finally feel like I'm going to do it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just say you are giving up.So, Day 9 is completed, but all I've really noticed is an increased sex drive. I'm as horny as a 14 year old. Wouldn't say that it's really making any improvements to my life. I have a pretty much guaranteed lay coming up on Saturday, and I'm beginning to become a little concerned that I will blow my load as soon as I stick it in her, which won't be much fun. Also would say that my standards seem to be decreasing slightly, probably about a point. 6s becoming 7s. 7s becoming 8s. 8s to 9s etc. Gonna drop this early.
Really, if I've learned anything from this, it's that, like anything else in life, masturbation is best in moderation. If you're jerking it 10x a day then you may have a problem and nofap is probably good for you. 2-3 times per week though? You're fine.
Probably true. I still say it's best that you ensure your life has at least one very willing sexual partner so you never have to "take care of yourself", because she desires to.So, Day 9 is completed, but all I've really noticed is an increased sex drive. I'm as horny as a 14 year old. Wouldn't say that it's really making any improvements to my life. I have a pretty much guaranteed lay coming up on Saturday, and I'm beginning to become a little concerned that I will blow my load as soon as I stick it in her, which won't be much fun. Also would say that my standards seem to be decreasing slightly, probably about a point. 6s becoming 7s. 7s becoming 8s. 8s to 9s etc. Gonna drop this early.
Really, if I've learned anything from this, it's that, like anything else in life, masturbation is best in moderation. If you're jerking it 10x a day then you may have a problem and nofap is probably good for you. 2-3 times per week though? You're fine.
Why bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.Just say you are giving up.
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Amen.....they call these people psuedoskepticsWhy bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.