Infern0
Master Don Juan
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Results from 1 year of nofap pleaseStarting...now for me,
Can I beat my record of 1 year ? hope so
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Results from 1 year of nofap pleaseStarting...now for me,
Can I beat my record of 1 year ? hope so
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yeh. I get that. There is a bit of a depression after on occasion. Compared to after banging when, if done right, the is a massive experience of elation.I always speak for myself and from what i've notice, nofap brings only positive effects. I already feel the gap after faping and currently i feel on my lowest potential.
Exactly this. Every time i fck a female, i feel like i can fck everything and that I'm the boss. Testo is on the peak and i can feel only positive things .The exact opposite happens when you fap.Yeh. I get that. There is a bit of a depression after on occasion. Compared to after banging when, if done right, the is a massive experience of elation.
Gonna power through. Day 3. It's good for will-power. Gonna go out at the weekend and get laid as to reward myself!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
They have VR porn on the way, good God.Exactly this. Every time i fck a female, i feel like i can fck everything and that I'm the boss. Testo is on the peak and i can feel only positive things .The exact opposite happens when you fap.
Yesterday when i broke my strike , i had some thoughts like "I don't care to fck any chick ever again in my life" and stupid things like this.
Not to mention a huge negativity with everything. I couldn't even focus on simple stuff.
This is how much masturbation fcks you up.
Thinking about these effects, it's not hard to relate masturbation with the increased percentage of feminists in the last decade, I mean i see everywhere on the internet masturbation to be promoted and considered good and it's only going to drain you. I can't think of a better weapon to make every man in the world a miserable fat beta.
Ummmm, 70 relapses kinda sorta doesn't allow you to say you've been on nofap. You don't get the sobriety chip for one year unless it's 365 consecutive days....lolDay 12
I've been on nofap for over a year now but have been very unsuccessful. I have an app that tracks how long its been and I've relapsed over 70 times. This time I finally feel like I'm going to do it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just say you are giving up.So, Day 9 is completed, but all I've really noticed is an increased sex drive. I'm as horny as a 14 year old. Wouldn't say that it's really making any improvements to my life. I have a pretty much guaranteed lay coming up on Saturday, and I'm beginning to become a little concerned that I will blow my load as soon as I stick it in her, which won't be much fun. Also would say that my standards seem to be decreasing slightly, probably about a point. 6s becoming 7s. 7s becoming 8s. 8s to 9s etc. Gonna drop this early.
Really, if I've learned anything from this, it's that, like anything else in life, masturbation is best in moderation. If you're jerking it 10x a day then you may have a problem and nofap is probably good for you. 2-3 times per week though? You're fine.
Probably true. I still say it's best that you ensure your life has at least one very willing sexual partner so you never have to "take care of yourself", because she desires to.So, Day 9 is completed, but all I've really noticed is an increased sex drive. I'm as horny as a 14 year old. Wouldn't say that it's really making any improvements to my life. I have a pretty much guaranteed lay coming up on Saturday, and I'm beginning to become a little concerned that I will blow my load as soon as I stick it in her, which won't be much fun. Also would say that my standards seem to be decreasing slightly, probably about a point. 6s becoming 7s. 7s becoming 8s. 8s to 9s etc. Gonna drop this early.
Really, if I've learned anything from this, it's that, like anything else in life, masturbation is best in moderation. If you're jerking it 10x a day then you may have a problem and nofap is probably good for you. 2-3 times per week though? You're fine.
Why bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.Just say you are giving up.
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Amen.....they call these people psuedoskepticsWhy bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.