"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)

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Day 4 now, and expecting a sex night tomorrow... hope this will help
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Day 3 aswell. Having much less sleep, im usually in bed for 10 hours and tired still. Had 6 all 3 days so far and feel fine.

Weird.
 

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Day 4...doing well so far. I've kept busy with online class work, archery practice, daily HIIT exercise around dinner time. Pandora/Spotify Music listening and YouTube videos are also nice distractions.
 

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Still in it, when did we start this? Woke up with a rager this early morning but too sleepy to do anything about it so bravo to me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Day 3 aswell. Having much less sleep, im usually in bed for 10 hours and tired still. Had 6 all 3 days so far and feel fine.

Weird.
This happened to me last time but it took about a week to kick in. Started waking up at 6.30 for the first time in my life. Weird
 

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The struggle is real, guys.

I started off the morning great as you may have noticed from my post earlier today.

I got home six hours later after work and all I could think about was fap. Fvck.

I nearly caved already just thinking about it.

I then DuckDuckGo searched "benefits of nofap+November". One of the top results that came up was this post "How much do you want this?" by a Reddit guy. His post motivated me to stop my craving, write this comment on SoSuave.

I'm now going to go do some archery practice for the next hour + a hour of high intensity interval training to get my neurotransmitter boosts from exercise. Rock on!
 

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The struggle is real, guys.

I started off the morning great as you may have noticed from my post earlier today.

I got home six hours later after work and all I could think about was fap. Fvck.

I nearly caved already just thinking about it.

I then DuckDuckGo searched "benefits of nofap+November". One of the top results that came up was this post "How much do you want this?" by a Reddit guy. His post motivated me to stop my craving, write this comment on SoSuave.

I'm now going to go do some archery practice for the next hour + a hour of high intensity interval training to get my neurotransmitter boosts from exercise. Rock on!
Those times you struggle, when you get past them you always see benefits.

Keep going
 

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Day 4

Was out yesterday for 3 Beers... Woke up today, very horny... I am doing meaningful stuff and forgett about that brian-movies.

Remember, Alkohol or Weed makes you fuccckking horny the next morning. I myself will limit this habbits...

I feel energetic, though... I will not give in the urges, benefits are to good.
 

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What exactly is the benefit to no fap exactly....?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BeTheChange

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Reread the whole thread
No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.

Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.

Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.

- Yours truly, Chest Beater
 

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I can see im a bit more anxious if i dont fap, so thats not a positive at all. Positive side is that erections are quite harder
 

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No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.

Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.

Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.

- Yours truly, Chest Beater
For many of us it doesn't work this way. If were fapping when we are in a drought it will prolong the drought because it rewards failure. It also bleeds put drive and motivation. Sex is different because you are rewarded with physical pleasure, confidence and masculinity through congugating with a female.
 

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No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.

Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.

Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.

- Yours truly, Chest Beater
Show us links and evidence for your stance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Infern0

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No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.

Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.

Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.

- Yours truly, Chest Beater
Go away chest beaters.

Begone
 

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No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.

Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.

Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.

- Yours truly, Chest Beater
i think everyone works differently, whereas one man might need to masturbate to control his thirst, another man might need to avoid masturbating to give him motivation
 

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day 4 completed, going strong, growing stronger.
Do you guys know how when you know some pregnant woman, all of a sudden you can't stop seeing pregnant women when you are out in the streets? Well, all I see now are butts.
 

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No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.

Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.

Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.

- Yours truly, Chest Beater
I agree with you, and I don't do nofap anymore because it's been counterproductive for me as well. But still - it's cool if these guys do it - it's a spirit raising exercise. It's about exerting discipline and willpower to reach a difficult goal.

It may sound funny, but for many guys a month without fapping is something really hard which they've never done before. It's a good experience, I can recommend that everybody do it at least once in their life.
 

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Im in!!! I gotta stop with the webcam models too & no porn... ****** porn is really ****ing up my flow with the ladies in real life
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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