"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Infern0
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This happened to me last time but it took about a week to kick in. Started waking up at 6.30 for the first time in my life. Weird
resilient
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I started off the morning great as you may have noticed from my post earlier today.
I got home six hours later after work and all I could think about was fap. Fvck.
I nearly caved already just thinking about it.
I then DuckDuckGo searched "benefits of nofap+November". One of the top results that came up was this post "How much do you want this?" by a Reddit guy. His post motivated me to stop my craving, write this comment on SoSuave.
I'm now going to go do some archery practice for the next hour + a hour of high intensity interval training to get my neurotransmitter boosts from exercise. Rock on!
Infern0
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Those times you struggle, when you get past them you always see benefits.
Keep going
Emotionist
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Was out yesterday for 3 Beers... Woke up today, very horny... I am doing meaningful stuff and forgett about that brian-movies.
Remember, Alkohol or Weed makes you fuccckking horny the next morning. I myself will limit this habbits...
I feel energetic, though... I will not give in the urges, benefits are to good.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
NSX-R
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Reread the whole thread
BeTheChange
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No thanks...as far as I can see it's just a placebo or misguided motivation for noobs.
Spanking the monkey has zero impact on my ability to get laid nor my confidence, productivity, etc. In fact it enhances these things because I am less outcome dependent.
Ironically this thread seems to be one big (unnecessary) circle jerk. Each to their own I suppose.
- Yours truly, Chest Beater
mrgoodstuff
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For many of us it doesn't work this way. If were fapping when we are in a drought it will prolong the drought because it rewards failure. It also bleeds put drive and motivation. Sex is different because you are rewarded with physical pleasure, confidence and masculinity through congugating with a female.
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Show us links and evidence for your stance
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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devilkingx2
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i think everyone works differently, whereas one man might need to masturbate to control his thirst, another man might need to avoid masturbating to give him motivation
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Do you guys know how when you know some pregnant woman, all of a sudden you can't stop seeing pregnant women when you are out in the streets? Well, all I see now are butts.
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I agree with you, and I don't do nofap anymore because it's been counterproductive for me as well. But still - it's cool if these guys do it - it's a spirit raising exercise. It's about exerting discipline and willpower to reach a difficult goal.
It may sound funny, but for many guys a month without fapping is something really hard which they've never done before. It's a good experience, I can recommend that everybody do it at least once in their life.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.