Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
I'm in. No fap starts today. I'm shooting (no pun intended) for 30 days.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Discipline, you got it, bro.Day 50. I made it to day fvcking 50. I don't know how but I bloody well did it!
So true. It helps to harness that focus to pursue any goal you set your mind to it.ThIs frees up so much time to kill in in the gym or with women or at work or clean my room or make food etc etc.
600? Geebus. I'm surprised your lay count isn't higher.Since I started no fap I have talked to probably 600 women. I have slept with 3 women
This has been a solid month and it ain't even over yet! Hahaha. I think I may sign up again next month. This month has been much more progressive than June.Good luck boys. Here's to the next 50 days.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The reason my lay count is much lower than it should be is because my logistics are absolute garbage. Aldo I may be overexaggerating a tad. My approach number is more like 400 now that I think about it. But the logistics are terrible. I live like 1.5 hours away from downtown and I live in a small house with my mom. Bummer. But I'm starting to get more creative with logisticsDiscipline, you got it, bro.
So true. It helps to harness that focus to pursue any goal you set your mind to it.
600? Geebus. I'm surprised your lay count isn't higher.Reading your 100 sets stories makes me miss my Approachzilla days in my 20s.
This has been a solid month and it ain't even over yet! Hahaha. I think I may sign up again next month. This month has been much more progressive than June.
Do something else. The urge will eventually subside.Day 3. F*uck this hard (again, no pun intended). It's hot here in Colorado and there are hot chicks wearing hardly anything everywhere. Plus, everyone in the city I live in is in top shape. My gym is even worse.
What do you do when you're at home and feel the "urge?"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
day27
I need to approach soon. Nofap got me like...
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.