Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
I'm in. No fap starts today. I'm shooting (no pun intended) for 30 days.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Discipline, you got it, bro.Day 50. I made it to day fvcking 50. I don't know how but I bloody well did it!
So true. It helps to harness that focus to pursue any goal you set your mind to it.ThIs frees up so much time to kill in in the gym or with women or at work or clean my room or make food etc etc.
600? Geebus. I'm surprised your lay count isn't higher.Since I started no fap I have talked to probably 600 women. I have slept with 3 women
This has been a solid month and it ain't even over yet! Hahaha. I think I may sign up again next month. This month has been much more progressive than June.Good luck boys. Here's to the next 50 days.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The reason my lay count is much lower than it should be is because my logistics are absolute garbage. Aldo I may be overexaggerating a tad. My approach number is more like 400 now that I think about it. But the logistics are terrible. I live like 1.5 hours away from downtown and I live in a small house with my mom. Bummer. But I'm starting to get more creative with logisticsDiscipline, you got it, bro.
So true. It helps to harness that focus to pursue any goal you set your mind to it.
600? Geebus. I'm surprised your lay count isn't higher.Reading your 100 sets stories makes me miss my Approachzilla days in my 20s.
This has been a solid month and it ain't even over yet! Hahaha. I think I may sign up again next month. This month has been much more progressive than June.
Do something else. The urge will eventually subside.Day 3. F*uck this hard (again, no pun intended). It's hot here in Colorado and there are hot chicks wearing hardly anything everywhere. Plus, everyone in the city I live in is in top shape. My gym is even worse.
What do you do when you're at home and feel the "urge?"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
day27
I need to approach soon. Nofap got me like...
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.