"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nobody understands the economy and everyone should shut up about it.

Veréngárda

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I'm sick and tired of seeing all sides of American politics telling each other that they "don't understand the economy."

Whenever one person or group says something about the economy.. there's always another person or group there to directly contradict said thing with an equally vague new statement.

And back and forth.. and back and forth.

"The economy was booming during (so and so) period," one group will say.

"No it was terrible," another group will jive without explaining further.

"Tell me you don't understand economics without telling me you don't understand economics."

^^^
This phrase in particular I'm finding increasingly infuriating. No explanation, no details. Just "you don't know what you're talking about because I say so."

How about ****ing NONE of you do? Try that on for size.

More and more I'm starting to see economics as something that you don't "understand" but rather something you get lucky with..

.. or not, and die or.. something.

That's how I'm seeing it now. Every society throughout all of human history has basically just been winging it and pretending they know what the **** they're doing.

Pretending that they have it down to some kind of "science."

I don't think there is a "science" to it. If there was, people would at least be able to agree on SOMETHING, ANYTHING.

But as it stands, nobody can agree on a single thing, and that lack of objectivity is telling.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Then ignore them. The disconnect, as with most things societal, is due to heavy propaganda. If nothing is ever discussed, the propaganda is all that left.
 

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I listen to the true free market (classical liberal) economists. These are the ones who have a grip on reality. No one can predict exactly what, when, or how severe, but the fundamentals of our economy are awful, and our policy trajectory if not reversed and repudiated, leads to economic collapse, hyper inflation, and dictatorship.
 

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I listen to the true free market (classical liberal) economists. These are the ones who have a grip on reality. No one can predict exactly what, when, or how severe, but the fundamentals of our economy are awful, and our policy trajectory if not reversed and repudiated, leads to economic collapse, hyper inflation, and dictatorship.
****, man! That's heavy. But maybe not untrue ... unless us men stop being wimps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The economy as a whole is a collective of emotions which are triggered by propaganda and manipulation via the media. But on an individual level, it's what we make of it. So much doom and gloom, but yet, my area is still flooded with "help wanted" signs. The only people I know who are not working right now don't want to work. They are making up every excuse imaginable as to why they are not. Prices of stuff is going up, but I do not yet know of anyone who is living in a homeless shelter because of high gas prices or higher meat prices. It's disgusting what has happened to the price of things since early 2021. I hate it as much as anyone, but I work around it. Enjoying my ribeye steak, mushrooms, bussels sprouts, and zero carb Bud Lite Next beer right now. Then working the next 15 x days straight. Cheers!
 

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I have a very heavy reality view on economics, such as no government allowed in any industry. I also have a separate one that involves homogenous societies with regulations that most members in said society uphold and don't abuse. The former is the one that most cannot swallow, but the latter is more tolerable if you want to have your cake and eat it too. You just have to make a social sacrifice.
 

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Economic advice is all bullsh!t. Purple who claim to understand how it works can literally be beaten at stock trading by a hamster.

The fact that the housing market is a bubble just 12 years after the previous recession kinda says it all.

Also, a lot of people live in a fantasy world. They claim that people are starving to death because billionaires are greedy. The reality is no one is starving to death. The poorer people are, they fatter they are nowadays.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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