"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no sex, no love no nothing

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So I like this girl, and me and my friends go out with her a lot and hang out.
I try to get her but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend, because it's stupid to have one.
Also telling her sex jokes, or just mentioning something without clothes, or saying something about sex. She always says that's disgusting, and she doesn't want to have sex...
I don't know if she lying or she's really so anti sex things, nothing turns her on :p


It may sound like I just want her for sex, but i'm not, i'm just trying to get her in some way ....
And she likes me the most, always hangs out with me and we do stuff together, I wouldn't say im her best friend because she doesn't talk with me like her best friends..

What am I doing wrong, is there hope or what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how old are you
 
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You are her best friend. Sorry, dude. She sees you as more as a brother than a potential lover hence her disgust for all the sex/nudity stuff.

You need to start flirting with other girls including this girl's girl-friends.
 
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The Bat said:
You are her best friend. Sorry, dude. She sees you as more as a brother than a potential lover hence her disgust for all the sex/nudity stuff.

You need to start flirting with other girls including this girl's girl-friends.
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Alot of the time if you mention sex directly in their psychology they pretty much have to be like "eew that's disgusting" so as not to be seen as slutty.

If you say this stuff and she still hangs around or keeps coming back that is a pretty good sign. Instead of talking about it and making jokes, kiss her or something and see.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yea, but most of the girls I talk to are not like ewww and stuff. She's kind of different or just shy to talk about it.
Me and my friends are going out to eat now, and I asked her if she's hungry...She said she isn't hungry but wants to go along... strange
She's 16.
 
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rsofa said:
she says she doesn't want a boyfriend, because it's stupid to have one.
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Only one thing: Had she really met an awesome guy, she'd be falling heads over heels to give the "boyfriend" thing a try!

The sad truth: that awesome guy isn't you.

Although I hope you will change that at some point.

Merry Christmas!
 
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After, asking her a bunch of stuff she said to me she only kisses and makes out occasionally on parties when she's really drunk.
The last time that she kissed someone sober was last year on new year. Then she didn't want to go over the details. I'm suspecting something bad must have happened and she fears relationships??
 
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man, you are stressing over NOTHING. Go improve yourself, get a black belt, get skilled with guns, get a PILE of money, THEN get a 3rd world wife, and make it a BEAUTIFUL, smart, sexy one, and only count on having her for the 5 years it takes her to become a US citizen. Get her to sign a prenuptial agreement about finances, get a vasectomy before having sex with her, and don't ever let her know much a bout your finances or goodies. Figure on getting another such woman every 5 years. You do NOT have to take whatever crap these US *****es want to hand out. Just ignore them, follow this game plan, and youll have it all, soon enough.
 
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@goundra
lol...
That's something that im not interested in.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@goundra
lol...
That's something that im not interested in.
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Yeah wtf lol.

You analyze too much. the simple fact is, make a movie. Do something her only her, and kiss her. The point of this is to figure out once and for all if she likes you. One you figure out that she doesn't, accept it, accept that you're not going to get with her and that you're not going to talk to her again. Accept it and move on.
 
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goundra said:
man, you are stressing over NOTHING. Go improve yourself, get a black belt, get skilled with guns, get a PILE of money, THEN get a 3rd world wife, and make it a BEAUTIFUL, smart, sexy one, and only count on having her for the 5 years it takes her to become a US citizen. Get her to sign a prenuptial agreement about finances, get a vasectomy before having sex with her, and don't ever let her know much a bout your finances or goodies. Figure on getting another such woman every 5 years. You do NOT have to take whatever crap these US *****es want to hand out. Just ignore them, follow this game plan, and youll have it all, soon enough.
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Mate, cut all this unrealistic sh1t that doesn't ever apply to anyone's situation. No one on the high school forum is going to even consider doing such an absurd thing. Nothing you say is relevant here. Cool you've found your plan, go and do it and leave the rest of us be.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh man. You're stressing over a girl that's younger than you. In high school, younger girls were the easiest to get.

Here's a hard lesson to learn-- no matter what conversations you have through technology, it is only the conversations in person that will win a girl over. All of this virtual sex talk is doing more harm than good. (That is how these conversations happen right? Because if you have an in-person conversation about who she's kissed, you probably get a shot to kiss her. Not so with the internet)

It sounds like this girl is too young for you. If a girl told me the most I could get was a make out, I would leave her alone and go find sex.
 
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Im going on a trip with my friends, and ill have some alone time with her for an hour or 2 tell me how should I make a move?
Should i just go and kiss her? :D
Or ask her how she feels about me?
Tell her my feelings?
Or something else?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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