no sex just cuddling?

[MatureDJ]

ok took this girl out went great she was holding my hand clingin all over me. we stayed the night at my buddies house and we slept in the same bed. but weird thing is all she wanted to do was cuddle? like I was pushing the envelope with sex but no she just wanted to hold me tight all night. we made out for about 5 sec and that's all I got. I've never experienced this before everytime I'm in bed with a woman it leads to sex. I'm starting to get the feeling she's either a virgin or just very sheltered.

I'd recommend getting a very strong erection and pressing it against her.

 

[sosousage]

man I tried leading.like short of forcing her hahahah. im taking her out this week hopefully we can escalate. this is officially the 1st date one on one. I know she likes me not even worried about that. she's just doesn't wanna feel like a slut.

but tbh we prefer them if they do it quick. i often nexted girls because i thought they are asexual or smth with waiting too long. i feel used if i go on 3 dates and theres no sex lol

 

[marmel75]

but tbh we prefer them if they do it quick. i often nexted girls because i thought they are asexual or smth with waiting too long. i feel used if i go on 3 dates and theres no sex lol

To be honest if you are consistently having this problem then it is not them, its YOU. Ive ranged anywhere from banging a chick within the first 10 minutes of meeting to 6 or 7 dates...but on average it should be by the 3rd date. If this continuously keeps happening where they are not willing or wanting sex with you by the 3rd date you are doing something wrong, no other way to put it.

This is where you need to start analyzing what is happening in date and start changing how you are doing things and monitoring the results. Its obciously apparent if you continue do the same things as you are the rrsults will continue to be the same.

And for the record these women likely have nexted you in their minds long before you nexted them.

 

[Ryan Adams]

dude you gotta understand. first night my dumbass drank a certain liquor that I HATE and threw up out of her car. she STILL wanted me in her bed and kissed me after I used mouthwash ofcourse. 2nd time we slept was in a to her complete strangers house. I tried and got a little further..but no cigar. after I dropped her off SHE leaned on for the kiss. it wasn't a peck it was a 4 time kiss that girlfriend boyfriend does. not every woman is gonna put out after 2 times sleeping together I'm sorry but that just isn't realistic. the other day she texted me in the am and said the bday party she attended she got a little to drunk and wanted me to pick her up after I told her I just got back from work at 3 am and was on the road near her. I said don't drive drunk. she said she's got it. I responded why the **** are you driving drunk she sent me back a text saying.****ing Keri she wanted me to drive other ppl too I'm sorry I am going to leave here soon I promise I will text when I get home. I know she likes me I just think her controlling friend who recently got out of a bad divorce is holding her back. this chick definitely likes me I know it. but I just gotta get her on a one 1 on one date and I can seal the deal guarantee it

 

[Ryan Adams]

but if she flakes nexttt... she already kinda flaked once. this chick doesn't have barely any social media. she has a Snapchat but rarrrrrely uses it. has no instagram. and has posted anything on Facebook in literally years she just isn't that type of chick. I like that

 

[derby1]

I know she likes me I just think her controlling friend who recently got out of a bad divorce is holding her back

she loves your attention bro she is catstringing you , her actions are she hasnt arranged to meet you one on one properly theres always an "ISSUE"

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok I see what your saying but why would she hold my hand makeout with me sleep in the same bed etc..... and she has agreed to meet me one on one this week

 

[mrgoodstuff]

ok I see what your saying but why would she hold my hand makeout with me sleep in the same bed etc..... and she has agreed to meet me one on one this week

Attention. Some like knowing they have you but don't have to put out

 

[Ryan Adams]

I understand. how to go about dealing with a woman that shows every single sign of liking me. if she flakes said ok keep in touch?

 

[dude99]

if she flakes....

When she flakes. Next.

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok she said she had a catastrophic melt down and had to close at work all week so she can't do it today butttt she just said well reschedule for tom or Friday. I shouldn't next for this i feel like. she actually rescheduled.

 

[derby1]

week so she can't do it today butttt she just said well reschedule for tom or Friday. I shouldn't next for this i feel like. she actually rescheduled.

"Im kind of busy for the next 7 days(cause your as popular as **** and exciting as **** to be around) ill drop you a message in a weeks time and "maybe" we can sort something then"

then ghost for a week

 

[devilkingx2]

but tbh we prefer them if they do it quick. i often nexted girls because i thought they are asexual or smth with waiting too long. i feel used if i go on 3 dates and theres no sex lol

Screen better. Don't expect the girl you met in church to be a freak in bed lol.

 

[Ryan Adams]

she also said she had to close at work everynight I mean it's a legit excuse. shea working a 12 hr day and still is willing to go out...that shows some initation on her part.

I've flaked because I worked a long day.

 

[marmel75]

dude you gotta understand. first night my dumbass drank a certain liquor that I HATE and threw up out of her car. she STILL wanted me in her bed and kissed me after I used mouthwash ofcourse. 2nd time we slept was in a to her complete strangers house. I tried and got a little further..but no cigar. after I dropped her off SHE leaned on for the kiss. it wasn't a peck it was a 4 time kiss that girlfriend boyfriend does. not every woman is gonna put out after 2 times sleeping together I'm sorry but that just isn't realistic. the other day she texted me in the am and said the bday party she attended she got a little to drunk and wanted me to pick her up after I told her I just got back from work at 3 am and was on the road near her. I said don't drive drunk. she said she's got it. I responded why the **** are you driving drunk she sent me back a text saying.****ing Keri she wanted me to drive other ppl too I'm sorry I am going to leave here soon I promise I will text when I get home. I know she likes me I just think her controlling friend who recently got out of a bad divorce is holding her back. this chick definitely likes me I know it. but I just gotta get her on a one 1 on one date and I can seal the deal guarantee it

I wasnt referring to you I was referring to @sosousage

 

[derby1]

do you Know OP we try and be helpful but its as if weve got to hold your hand , theres about 100 local blokes on my social media and i may aswell speak to a lamp shade,

One even went to me the other day after a chat in the pub "AAAHHHHH I GET IT SO I PRETEND IM BUSY" ........i was like pretend i cant believe what im hearing

if there was ever a crisis or natural disaster etc i dread to think what the male population would do

 

[The Diver]

if there was ever a crisis or natural disaster etc i dread to think what the male population would do

Hahaha I like This ^

 

[Ryan Adams]

well if there was a crisis or natural disaster...id be thst guy to keep your power on as im a lineman for a power company so pretty sure I would know what to do

 

[devilkingx2]

I'd watch castaway on my phone to know what i should do

 

[derby1]

i dont think you quite got my point @Ryan Adams for how long youve been here, you ask a lot of repetitive questions, you also seem to want reassurance instead of trusting your gut instinct and thinking "im being fcked about by this or that woman" ........ , its like "maybe if i sniff around her a bit more shell "reward" me with sex"