No-plans purgatory

[teddy]

I've been doing a pretty good job weeding out the uninterested types, so I think I know where this is headed....

But I texted a girl telling her to let me know which days she's free in the coming days so that we can get a drink. She said "yes let's get a drink!" but didn't give me a day she's free.

Two days later, it's been crickets on both ends. She's high-valued woman who I'm sure gets lots of male attention. It's a fine line between looking needy and pursuing.

Do I wait a week to hit her up..."so how about that drink?" Or is there no harm in hitting her up now and setting something up?

I'm leaning towards the former. Don't want to be too pushy or over-eager with a high-valued woman like this.

 

[Spaz]

I don't ever text a girl to ask her when she's free for drinks.

I'd text her and would ask her to join me for drinks. If she refuses for that night but does make a counter, then I know she's interested. If she refuses and makes no counter then I'd know she's not interested.

In either case, I lose nothing and still profit.

 

[teddy]

I don't ever text a girl to ask her when she's free for drinks.

I'd text her and would ask her to join me for drinks. If she refuses for that night but does make a counter, then I know she's interested. If she refuses and makes no counter then I'd know she's not interested.

In either case, I lose nothing and still profit.

Alright, so what's done is done at this point. Think it's worth texting her now and asking her to join me for drinks tonight? Or is that looking needy at this point.

 

[Spaz]

Just text her and invite her out. Nothing needy abt inviting women out.

Make it simple and brief.

 

[wifehunter]

Why not skip all the formalities, and just ask her to bed?

That's what you want, right? I've had women 'straight up' ask me to bed, so it's not as 'far fetched' as it may seem.

 

[skinnyguy]

Yeah. I didn’t follow up with a chick who was supposed to meet me for lunch today cause she told me that she’d text her address so I could pick her up but never did. I’m not gonna “pursue” that cause I know that if she was interested she would have texted her address.

 

[teddy]

Why not skip all the formalities, and just ask her to bed?

That's what you want, right? I've had women 'straight up' ask me to bed, so it's not as 'far fetched' as it may seem.

Are you being for real or just sarcastic?

 

[teddy]

Yeah. I didn’t follow up with a chick who was supposed to meet me for lunch today cause she told me that she’d text her address so I could pick her up but never did. I’m not gonna “pursue” that cause I know that if she was interested she would have texted her address.

So you're saying just leave it as is?

 

[Billtx49]

So you're saying just leave it as is?

Give her some time to think about it. Wait a week, you’re a busy man.
If she shows similiar disinterest at that time, forget her.

 

[wifehunter]

Are you being for real or just sarcastic?

Both

 

[skinnyguy]

So you're saying just leave it as is?

Your schedule should be so full that it shouldn’t matter if a hot girl flakes