"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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no personality, but should I date her?

Lingham

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This may be a stupid question, but this girl I know has very little personality it seems. She isn't stupid but she doesn't seem to have many opinions or anything. And she's quiet. But I know she is horny and I want to date her because i'm attracted.

Should I ask her anyways? I'm afraid it might be an ackward date since she has no opinions and doesn't talk much.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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don't waste your time dating her, no personality=waste of your time

if you can screw her without dating then do it up.
 

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ya dude, Id just keep her as a fvck buddy. I can't stand to go on dates with girls that have no personality
 

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Same sity, same problem. I have 2 of those types sucking on my thing...

To lower the ASD, I'd recommend going out with her once or twice and then isolating and fukking.
 

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Thats why you got to put on your pimp/player brain and dig into her life story. She is shy. Ok. Put your mind to the task and get her to open up.

Remember still waters run deep. That means people who are shy are alot deeper than you think...they have alot going on beneath the surface...you just got to mine for the gold.

Turn this one and you will have a strong cop (catch) who will follow you anywhere.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lingham

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Alright. Well I don't think theres' much beneath the surface but I could be wrong. I will hit on her heavy for a few days and If I don't get enough response I'll next her. I'm not gonna ask her on a date though I don't think.
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by PlayerSupreme
Thats why you got to put on your pimp/player brain and dig into her life story. She is shy. Ok. Put your mind to the task and get her to open up.
And when she opens up, a HUGE PILE OF CRAP falls out right onto your ears. Personal experiences only.
 

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PlayerSupreme is correct. My wife was like this and this describes her well. I would
add though, that sometimes what you find below the surface are problems - psychological problems.
 

white_hype

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i am in the same situation

id go for the glory hole SOON (2nd date) and if she says no id be like "wuteva bu" and drop her off at a schlokazty's or some sh1t

it all depends on how hot she is (and she better be really dam hot or i will beat ur ace cause this aint funny)
 

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Question you might want to ask is this: Is she this way around everyone? BTW, where did you meet this girl. What kind of girl is she? Is she the brainy, intellectual type? Many of these such girls may be smart but unlike such guys (who tend to be often arrogant and annoying) these girls tend to be quiet and reserved except possibly within their own circles or cliques.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Lingham
I know she is horny and I want to date her because i'm attracted.
That's the answer to your question. You're attracted, she's attracted => date.
 

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Re: Re: no personality, but should I date her?

Originally posted by ChesterB
That's the answer to your question. You're attracted, she's attracted => date.
Totally agree with you. You guys seem to be confusing a date for a LTR, you don't need "the right one" for a date.
 
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