“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No more p0rn

Ice882

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I'm satisfying myself sexually with it, so when I'm with girls all I want is affection and intimacy. I don't think "wow, I could have so easily made a move there and hooked up with her last night" until the day after. If I don't mb, I think I'll be more sexually focused during dates.

example:

last night my psuedo-gf (we've been dating for a couple months, but nothing official) and I were watching a movie on the couch in the common room of her dorm (she's a boarder, I'm not) and we were with some other people most of the time but they all left for about 25 minutes, and we were sitting there cuddling, holding hands, talking softly to each other, and I didn't make a move to kiss her - no idea why not, she seemed tired and not in the mood, but I know its not that hard to rev girls up. It was mostly because I didn't feel any need to be satisfied sexually. Idk when I last mb'd before I saw her - maybe a day or two before - but I wasn't h0rny. If I cut out p0rn I think I'll be much more proactive with girls and actually hook up with them more often, rather than just being intimate with them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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colombiandude

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lmao thats true in your situation. but lately ive been trying to stop. it desensitizes you towards it i guess and when you acutally do it you wont find it as satisfying in reality. But you usually feel h0rny 3 or 4 days after dependsing on how often you do it.
 

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I'm trying to cut it out completely. I haven't since last Sunday, and I'm horny as hell pretty much all the time :D. It's definitely helping me be more sexual and embrace my sexuality instead of shying away from it.
 

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haha. well im a bit religious and this week is fasting week for the new year and i decided to give up tv and jacking off completely for a week, since i cant give up food or anything cuz i sleep very little and am on my schools gymnastics team. lol. but i hope i can do it and continue even. porn is a bad habit to get into.
 
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