"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No more p0rn

Ice882

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I'm satisfying myself sexually with it, so when I'm with girls all I want is affection and intimacy. I don't think "wow, I could have so easily made a move there and hooked up with her last night" until the day after. If I don't mb, I think I'll be more sexually focused during dates.

example:

last night my psuedo-gf (we've been dating for a couple months, but nothing official) and I were watching a movie on the couch in the common room of her dorm (she's a boarder, I'm not) and we were with some other people most of the time but they all left for about 25 minutes, and we were sitting there cuddling, holding hands, talking softly to each other, and I didn't make a move to kiss her - no idea why not, she seemed tired and not in the mood, but I know its not that hard to rev girls up. It was mostly because I didn't feel any need to be satisfied sexually. Idk when I last mb'd before I saw her - maybe a day or two before - but I wasn't h0rny. If I cut out p0rn I think I'll be much more proactive with girls and actually hook up with them more often, rather than just being intimate with them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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colombiandude

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lmao thats true in your situation. but lately ive been trying to stop. it desensitizes you towards it i guess and when you acutally do it you wont find it as satisfying in reality. But you usually feel h0rny 3 or 4 days after dependsing on how often you do it.
 

sageproduct

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I'm trying to cut it out completely. I haven't since last Sunday, and I'm horny as hell pretty much all the time :D. It's definitely helping me be more sexual and embrace my sexuality instead of shying away from it.
 

colombiandude

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haha. well im a bit religious and this week is fasting week for the new year and i decided to give up tv and jacking off completely for a week, since i cant give up food or anything cuz i sleep very little and am on my schools gymnastics team. lol. but i hope i can do it and continue even. porn is a bad habit to get into.
 
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