"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No more p0rn

Ice882

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I'm satisfying myself sexually with it, so when I'm with girls all I want is affection and intimacy. I don't think "wow, I could have so easily made a move there and hooked up with her last night" until the day after. If I don't mb, I think I'll be more sexually focused during dates.

example:

last night my psuedo-gf (we've been dating for a couple months, but nothing official) and I were watching a movie on the couch in the common room of her dorm (she's a boarder, I'm not) and we were with some other people most of the time but they all left for about 25 minutes, and we were sitting there cuddling, holding hands, talking softly to each other, and I didn't make a move to kiss her - no idea why not, she seemed tired and not in the mood, but I know its not that hard to rev girls up. It was mostly because I didn't feel any need to be satisfied sexually. Idk when I last mb'd before I saw her - maybe a day or two before - but I wasn't h0rny. If I cut out p0rn I think I'll be much more proactive with girls and actually hook up with them more often, rather than just being intimate with them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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colombiandude

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lmao thats true in your situation. but lately ive been trying to stop. it desensitizes you towards it i guess and when you acutally do it you wont find it as satisfying in reality. But you usually feel h0rny 3 or 4 days after dependsing on how often you do it.
 

sageproduct

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I'm trying to cut it out completely. I haven't since last Sunday, and I'm horny as hell pretty much all the time :D. It's definitely helping me be more sexual and embrace my sexuality instead of shying away from it.
 

colombiandude

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haha. well im a bit religious and this week is fasting week for the new year and i decided to give up tv and jacking off completely for a week, since i cant give up food or anything cuz i sleep very little and am on my schools gymnastics team. lol. but i hope i can do it and continue even. porn is a bad habit to get into.
 
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