Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ice882

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I'm satisfying myself sexually with it, so when I'm with girls all I want is affection and intimacy. I don't think "wow, I could have so easily made a move there and hooked up with her last night" until the day after. If I don't mb, I think I'll be more sexually focused during dates.

example:

last night my psuedo-gf (we've been dating for a couple months, but nothing official) and I were watching a movie on the couch in the common room of her dorm (she's a boarder, I'm not) and we were with some other people most of the time but they all left for about 25 minutes, and we were sitting there cuddling, holding hands, talking softly to each other, and I didn't make a move to kiss her - no idea why not, she seemed tired and not in the mood, but I know its not that hard to rev girls up. It was mostly because I didn't feel any need to be satisfied sexually. Idk when I last mb'd before I saw her - maybe a day or two before - but I wasn't h0rny. If I cut out p0rn I think I'll be much more proactive with girls and actually hook up with them more often, rather than just being intimate with them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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colombiandude

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lmao thats true in your situation. but lately ive been trying to stop. it desensitizes you towards it i guess and when you acutally do it you wont find it as satisfying in reality. But you usually feel h0rny 3 or 4 days after dependsing on how often you do it.
 

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I'm trying to cut it out completely. I haven't since last Sunday, and I'm horny as hell pretty much all the time :D. It's definitely helping me be more sexual and embrace my sexuality instead of shying away from it.
 

colombiandude

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haha. well im a bit religious and this week is fasting week for the new year and i decided to give up tv and jacking off completely for a week, since i cant give up food or anything cuz i sleep very little and am on my schools gymnastics team. lol. but i hope i can do it and continue even. porn is a bad habit to get into.
 
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