I'm satisfying myself sexually with it, so when I'm with girls all I want is affection and intimacy. I don't think "wow, I could have so easily made a move there and hooked up with her last night" until the day after. If I don't mb, I think I'll be more sexually focused during dates.
example:
last night my psuedo-gf (we've been dating for a couple months, but nothing official) and I were watching a movie on the couch in the common room of her dorm (she's a boarder, I'm not) and we were with some other people most of the time but they all left for about 25 minutes, and we were sitting there cuddling, holding hands, talking softly to each other, and I didn't make a move to kiss her - no idea why not, she seemed tired and not in the mood, but I know its not that hard to rev girls up. It was mostly because I didn't feel any need to be satisfied sexually. Idk when I last mb'd before I saw her - maybe a day or two before - but I wasn't h0rny. If I cut out p0rn I think I'll be much more proactive with girls and actually hook up with them more often, rather than just being intimate with them.
example:
last night my psuedo-gf (we've been dating for a couple months, but nothing official) and I were watching a movie on the couch in the common room of her dorm (she's a boarder, I'm not) and we were with some other people most of the time but they all left for about 25 minutes, and we were sitting there cuddling, holding hands, talking softly to each other, and I didn't make a move to kiss her - no idea why not, she seemed tired and not in the mood, but I know its not that hard to rev girls up. It was mostly because I didn't feel any need to be satisfied sexually. Idk when I last mb'd before I saw her - maybe a day or two before - but I wasn't h0rny. If I cut out p0rn I think I'll be much more proactive with girls and actually hook up with them more often, rather than just being intimate with them.