No more Mr. Nice Guy

[Uke]

I have decided to change from a miserable AFC to something better. I gotta say, I didn't think I would ever change my attitude towards women. I've been taught to love and respect women ever since I was a kid, part of my culture. Due to some recent events, like my friend deceiving me and sleeping with the girl I've been working on for a while, I have decided to change. Come to think, I always ended up with the bad case of oneitis.

I am on my way to enlightenment, I've picked The Mystery Method and The Game, I think it's a good start. I've also been lurking on the site and forum for a while and my eyes have been opened.

I gotta thank you guys for being here and helping AFC's like me.

 

[JohnChap]

BEFORE YOU PROCEED, HEED MY WARNING:

Never change WHO you are ... or else, you'll lose yourself. Lose yourself, and you lose BIG!!!


Wishing you International Success with Women

 

[Uke]

Changing WHO I am was never my plan, I just want to change HOW I deal with women.

 

[mtlwlu]

Good luck, we've all been there before and many of us have done a complete 180.

 

[DarkShade]

I think what John was getting at was to not become something you aren't. Your personal comfort with yourself is a paramount concern, because you have to deal with yourself 24/7 for the rest of your life, being a fake or a fraud entails more misery than being alone.

That being said, you need to feel better about yourself before you go out there. Don't think a woman will just change you for the better, they will change you to suit their tastes. Positive personal philosophy like what you read here is a good start but your starting line is one of self-improvement.

 

[SharinganUser]

What do you mean your friend decieved you by sleeping with the girl you have been working on?

 

[Uke]

What do you mean your friend decieved you by sleeping with the girl you have been working on?

Here is what happened:

I was at this party and met this one girl. After talking to her for a while we found a few things in common and things were going well. I escalated a little kino, but I think I failed because I didn't know what I was doing. Long story short, by some magic I do end up with a number close. So I wait a couple days to call her. This week was busy so I scheduled a date for the next week. On the weekend tho, I had other plans and didn't want to see her so I wouldn't ruin our date on Tuesday. This is where I failed, she txted me and asked what I was doing, this was around 11 on Friday night. I ignored the txt. Next day I found out my friend which had the proximity advantage had fvcked her. I failed, it was my fault, should have moved in sooner.

 

[MisterMcGee]

Read the DJ bible. MM is just poisonous to someone who doesn't have the mindset and frame of a DJ.

 

[SharinganUser]

Here is what happened:

I was at this party and met this one girl. After talking to her for a while we found a few things in common and things were going well. I escalated a little kino, but I think I failed because I didn't know what I was doing. Long story short, by some magic I do end up with a number close. So I wait a couple days to call her. This week was busy so I scheduled a date for the next week. On the weekend tho, I had other plans and didn't want to see her so I wouldn't ruin our date on Tuesday. This is where I failed, she txted me and asked what I was doing, this was around 11 on Friday night. I ignored the txt. Next day I found out my friend which had the proximity advantage had fvcked her. I failed, it was my fault, should have moved in sooner.

Dude, there is basically three ways to look at that situation. Your way, which I'd say isn't benefiting you at all. Or that it's not your fault because she is either a) single and on the market, or B) a *****, niether of which are your fault.

Personally i would say you dodged a bullet.