"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No milk diet
- Thread starter StoneCold
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Giovanni Casanova
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.google.com/search?num=30&hl=en&lr=&safe=off&q=lactose+free+whey
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Since then I've been fine. It tastes slightly different, but now a couldn't tell you it's any different.
its a great resouce for lifting and all that sort of thing.
just eat lots of protein man. the rule is 1 g for each lb that you weigh.
and eat lots of calories.
to get bulkier all you gotta do is eat more than your maintaince calories (the amount of calories that you have to eat in order ot stay the same weight) eat like 500-1000 over that.
if you have a raging metabolism like me you might wanna jack up the numbers to like 1000-1500 more.
my maintaince is around 3500 calories. so i gotta eat like 4500 to gain weight
but then again i hit the gyms hard every other day and cardio every other day too.
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
A rash is not a symptom of lactose intolerance.
If you were intolerant you would have at least stomach discomfort.
Strange is lactose a usual ingredient in whey protein powders?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
Whey is what happens when you put cream through a coffee filter. Much less of it, but thats what it is pretty much. Whether or not it has lactose in it as a ingredient I don't know, but I think it would being it comes from cream unless you get the lactose free whey.