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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No means no until it means yes!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sleep Hygiene
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Its a chick with a di-ck.
What kind of madness is this? And they call me insane...
Well at least I have a negative opinion of Roosh, Mystery, and all those other famous PUA gurus. Not because I disagree ideologically with them but because they mostly are laughing their way to the bank by trying to huge promises of success which never match up to the reality. They parasitize on beta males who are insecure with themselves and their dating life. Also, some of their dating advice is pure suck, one could get most of the same if not better advice here on SoSuave. And I still do not understand how that clown Mystery gets women, he is annoying as hell... Peacocking is one thing, but he is just a walking circus.
Well at least I have a negative opinion of Roosh, Mystery, and all those other famous PUA gurus. Not because I disagree ideologically with them but because they mostly are laughing their way to the bank by trying to huge promises of success which never match up to the reality. They parasitize on beta males who are insecure with themselves and their dating life. Also, some of their dating advice is pure suck, one could get most of the same if not better advice here on SoSuave. And I still do not understand how that clown Mystery gets women, he is annoying as hell... Peacocking is one thing, but he is just a walking circus.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.