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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No means no until it means yes!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sleep Hygiene
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Its a chick with a di-ck.
What kind of madness is this? And they call me insane...
Well at least I have a negative opinion of Roosh, Mystery, and all those other famous PUA gurus. Not because I disagree ideologically with them but because they mostly are laughing their way to the bank by trying to huge promises of success which never match up to the reality. They parasitize on beta males who are insecure with themselves and their dating life. Also, some of their dating advice is pure suck, one could get most of the same if not better advice here on SoSuave. And I still do not understand how that clown Mystery gets women, he is annoying as hell... Peacocking is one thing, but he is just a walking circus.
Well at least I have a negative opinion of Roosh, Mystery, and all those other famous PUA gurus. Not because I disagree ideologically with them but because they mostly are laughing their way to the bank by trying to huge promises of success which never match up to the reality. They parasitize on beta males who are insecure with themselves and their dating life. Also, some of their dating advice is pure suck, one could get most of the same if not better advice here on SoSuave. And I still do not understand how that clown Mystery gets women, he is annoying as hell... Peacocking is one thing, but he is just a walking circus.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.