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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No means no until it means yes!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sleep Hygiene
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Its a chick with a di-ck.
What kind of madness is this? And they call me insane...
Well at least I have a negative opinion of Roosh, Mystery, and all those other famous PUA gurus. Not because I disagree ideologically with them but because they mostly are laughing their way to the bank by trying to huge promises of success which never match up to the reality. They parasitize on beta males who are insecure with themselves and their dating life. Also, some of their dating advice is pure suck, one could get most of the same if not better advice here on SoSuave. And I still do not understand how that clown Mystery gets women, he is annoying as hell... Peacocking is one thing, but he is just a walking circus.
Well at least I have a negative opinion of Roosh, Mystery, and all those other famous PUA gurus. Not because I disagree ideologically with them but because they mostly are laughing their way to the bank by trying to huge promises of success which never match up to the reality. They parasitize on beta males who are insecure with themselves and their dating life. Also, some of their dating advice is pure suck, one could get most of the same if not better advice here on SoSuave. And I still do not understand how that clown Mystery gets women, he is annoying as hell... Peacocking is one thing, but he is just a walking circus.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.