"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No matter how much you know, some sh*t can still confuse you.

Slash Dolo

Slash Dolo

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So I'd like some second opinions here.

About a year ago I ended up chatting quite a bit with a girl on Tinder. We had a nice chemistry. Asked her out a few times but she flaked so I nexted her and deleted her off the app.

Recently she popped up as someone I may know on Facebook randomly (never knew her last name) so I checked out her profile and pics to see if it was actually her and added her. She sends me a message almost instantly but I held off on replying because I noticed something weird. She had deleted like, every old pic of her and an apparent ex boyfriend after she added me. I know this because I was actively looking through some albums and then these pictures were just gone.

My question is why? Like, why go through the trouble? These are old pics (4 months plus and there had to have been 20+) and from what I can tell she is single.

Second question is should I even bother here? Knowing she was flaky last time should I even waste my time? Currently talking to two other girls at the moment but nothing serious, just spinning plates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El Payaso

El Payaso

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"Recently she popped up as someone I may know on Facebook randomly"

Aka you were searching for her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Glassguy

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I have noticed this too. Since you have to log into Tinder through Facebook, there is a connection there between the two. I've had several tinder chicks show up as recommended friends after chatting on tinder and we had no mutual friends as connections.
 
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