"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No matter how much you know, some sh*t can still confuse you.

Slash Dolo

Slash Dolo

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So I'd like some second opinions here.

About a year ago I ended up chatting quite a bit with a girl on Tinder. We had a nice chemistry. Asked her out a few times but she flaked so I nexted her and deleted her off the app.

Recently she popped up as someone I may know on Facebook randomly (never knew her last name) so I checked out her profile and pics to see if it was actually her and added her. She sends me a message almost instantly but I held off on replying because I noticed something weird. She had deleted like, every old pic of her and an apparent ex boyfriend after she added me. I know this because I was actively looking through some albums and then these pictures were just gone.

My question is why? Like, why go through the trouble? These are old pics (4 months plus and there had to have been 20+) and from what I can tell she is single.

Second question is should I even bother here? Knowing she was flaky last time should I even waste my time? Currently talking to two other girls at the moment but nothing serious, just spinning plates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Payaso

El Payaso

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"Recently she popped up as someone I may know on Facebook randomly"

Aka you were searching for her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Glassguy

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I have noticed this too. Since you have to log into Tinder through Facebook, there is a connection there between the two. I've had several tinder chicks show up as recommended friends after chatting on tinder and we had no mutual friends as connections.
 
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