"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No matter how much you know, some sh*t can still confuse you.

Slash Dolo

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So I'd like some second opinions here.

About a year ago I ended up chatting quite a bit with a girl on Tinder. We had a nice chemistry. Asked her out a few times but she flaked so I nexted her and deleted her off the app.

Recently she popped up as someone I may know on Facebook randomly (never knew her last name) so I checked out her profile and pics to see if it was actually her and added her. She sends me a message almost instantly but I held off on replying because I noticed something weird. She had deleted like, every old pic of her and an apparent ex boyfriend after she added me. I know this because I was actively looking through some albums and then these pictures were just gone.

My question is why? Like, why go through the trouble? These are old pics (4 months plus and there had to have been 20+) and from what I can tell she is single.

Second question is should I even bother here? Knowing she was flaky last time should I even waste my time? Currently talking to two other girls at the moment but nothing serious, just spinning plates.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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El Payaso

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"Recently she popped up as someone I may know on Facebook randomly"

Aka you were searching for her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Glassguy

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I have noticed this too. Since you have to log into Tinder through Facebook, there is a connection there between the two. I've had several tinder chicks show up as recommended friends after chatting on tinder and we had no mutual friends as connections.
 
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