Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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No Masturbation for 6 months! Join in!

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SamePendo

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I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn?
LOL! I hope no one has gone to such extremes as missing school, work, or important events just to have a wank.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Best of luck to you man. I'll not be joining in the festivities.
 

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half a year?

Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
This has been an interesting debate on my behalf as well. To crank or not to crank? When is cranking it considered too much. Sometimes when I crank it too much, I have low self esteem.

However, I think it is necessary to do it atleast 2X a week. One has to release that sexual tension. I find if I do not wank it, by like the 3rd day, all I think about is sex and nothing else. Needless to say, it is torture.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ_in_making

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keep us informed on how your progress w/ chicks sky-rockets. I hear that crap has great benefits
 

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You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
 

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I'll join in. Sounds like fun. I want to see how my mindset changes. I haven't gone more than a week or two without jerking it since I was like 15.
 

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
:crackup:

But in all seriousness, 6 months? damn! I'll try going a week, then maybe 2. But 6 months?

Good luck. Your gonna need it.
 

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I'm on 2 weeks and I can already tell that something is different. It's a feeling I haven't had in 10yrs, seriously.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'm in...
 

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Re: half a year?

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
I haven't done so in a month, and I'm already experiencing it. If my hand so much as brushes against my p*nis while it's hard, the fluids get excited and try to race to the exit hole.
 

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you guys are insane. I can't last 5 days. If I go to long I feel like I would f&*ck anything that moves. Every other day seems to be working good for me.

For those who are in the process of doing this, please elaborate on the change in your "state of mind"

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can u jerk it without cumming?

we need some rules here...

whens the start date?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i'm in. imma have a good wankt onight though!

haha jp jp. i'm in though
 

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I feel more enthusiastic and more outgoing then what I used to be. There's like this surge of energy that courses through my veins... I feel more alert and my thought process is very sharp, and so is my wit.

In social settings, I make very diliberate eye contact with everyone i talk to.

It's that ALPHA state of mind without even thinking about it.

Women have been responding VERY well to this.
 

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add my name...

as for wet dreams... I'll I dunno... sleep 10 minutes at a time so i don't wet the bed
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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