"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No Masturbation for 6 months! Join in!

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SamePendo

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I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn?
LOL! I hope no one has gone to such extremes as missing school, work, or important events just to have a wank.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Best of luck to you man. I'll not be joining in the festivities.
 

DJ_in_making

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half a year?

Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
This has been an interesting debate on my behalf as well. To crank or not to crank? When is cranking it considered too much. Sometimes when I crank it too much, I have low self esteem.

However, I think it is necessary to do it atleast 2X a week. One has to release that sexual tension. I find if I do not wank it, by like the 3rd day, all I think about is sex and nothing else. Needless to say, it is torture.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_in_making

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keep us informed on how your progress w/ chicks sky-rockets. I hear that crap has great benefits
 

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You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
 

Phantasmal

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I'll join in. Sounds like fun. I want to see how my mindset changes. I haven't gone more than a week or two without jerking it since I was like 15.
 

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
:crackup:

But in all seriousness, 6 months? damn! I'll try going a week, then maybe 2. But 6 months?

Good luck. Your gonna need it.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I'm on 2 weeks and I can already tell that something is different. It's a feeling I haven't had in 10yrs, seriously.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i'm in...
 

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Re: half a year?

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
I haven't done so in a month, and I'm already experiencing it. If my hand so much as brushes against my p*nis while it's hard, the fluids get excited and try to race to the exit hole.
 

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you guys are insane. I can't last 5 days. If I go to long I feel like I would f&*ck anything that moves. Every other day seems to be working good for me.

For those who are in the process of doing this, please elaborate on the change in your "state of mind"

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C00L

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can u jerk it without cumming?

we need some rules here...

whens the start date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kerensky

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i'm in. imma have a good wankt onight though!

haha jp jp. i'm in though
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I feel more enthusiastic and more outgoing then what I used to be. There's like this surge of energy that courses through my veins... I feel more alert and my thought process is very sharp, and so is my wit.

In social settings, I make very diliberate eye contact with everyone i talk to.

It's that ALPHA state of mind without even thinking about it.

Women have been responding VERY well to this.
 

Boner da Stoner

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add my name...

as for wet dreams... I'll I dunno... sleep 10 minutes at a time so i don't wet the bed
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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