"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No Masturbation for 6 months! Join in!

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SamePendo

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I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn?
LOL! I hope no one has gone to such extremes as missing school, work, or important events just to have a wank.
 

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Best of luck to you man. I'll not be joining in the festivities.
 

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half a year?

Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
This has been an interesting debate on my behalf as well. To crank or not to crank? When is cranking it considered too much. Sometimes when I crank it too much, I have low self esteem.

However, I think it is necessary to do it atleast 2X a week. One has to release that sexual tension. I find if I do not wank it, by like the 3rd day, all I think about is sex and nothing else. Needless to say, it is torture.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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keep us informed on how your progress w/ chicks sky-rockets. I hear that crap has great benefits
 

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You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
 

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I'll join in. Sounds like fun. I want to see how my mindset changes. I haven't gone more than a week or two without jerking it since I was like 15.
 

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
:crackup:

But in all seriousness, 6 months? damn! I'll try going a week, then maybe 2. But 6 months?

Good luck. Your gonna need it.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I'm on 2 weeks and I can already tell that something is different. It's a feeling I haven't had in 10yrs, seriously.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i'm in...
 

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Re: half a year?

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
I haven't done so in a month, and I'm already experiencing it. If my hand so much as brushes against my p*nis while it's hard, the fluids get excited and try to race to the exit hole.
 

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you guys are insane. I can't last 5 days. If I go to long I feel like I would f&*ck anything that moves. Every other day seems to be working good for me.

For those who are in the process of doing this, please elaborate on the change in your "state of mind"

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C00L

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can u jerk it without cumming?

we need some rules here...

whens the start date?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i'm in. imma have a good wankt onight though!

haha jp jp. i'm in though
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I feel more enthusiastic and more outgoing then what I used to be. There's like this surge of energy that courses through my veins... I feel more alert and my thought process is very sharp, and so is my wit.

In social settings, I make very diliberate eye contact with everyone i talk to.

It's that ALPHA state of mind without even thinking about it.

Women have been responding VERY well to this.
 

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add my name...

as for wet dreams... I'll I dunno... sleep 10 minutes at a time so i don't wet the bed
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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