"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ApC23

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I have no job at the moment, so i cant get a membership. I got in free this week with my friend, i loved it, ive been sore all week. Is it possible to gain weight just doing different bodyweight excersises? I do martial arts 3-5 days a week too, but i dont know if it will be possible to gain a good amount of mass without weights. anyone here gain muscle mass without using weights?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wee

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Yea your martial arts is just going to be a cardio workout which will make you even more skinny.


If I can't get into a gym its back to the basics, pushups (good real ones, with my feet up on a couch), pullups, dips, hyperextentions (off anything you can find), one legged squats and lunges, just anything. If you are starting off you may not be able to do this, but for my shoulders I do a wallstand do reps up and down. Lat raising milk jugs works too for shoulders. Hell you can figure out a program that uses your body weight, milk jugs full of water, and bags of sand if you take the time. Once you can get a membership at a gym though, GET IN!
 

mrRuckus

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ApC23 said:
I got in free this week with my friend, i loved it, ive been sore all week.
You like being sore? Isn't that akin to liking to have knee scrapes? "man scabs are COOL!"
 

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Yea your martial arts is just going to be a cardio workout which will make you even more skinny.
Depends on the martial art. I make gains on pads and wrestling all the time.
 

Rata Blanca

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Find a way to put weight to your push ups, dips, etc
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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