"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ApC23

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I have no job at the moment, so i cant get a membership. I got in free this week with my friend, i loved it, ive been sore all week. Is it possible to gain weight just doing different bodyweight excersises? I do martial arts 3-5 days a week too, but i dont know if it will be possible to gain a good amount of mass without weights. anyone here gain muscle mass without using weights?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wee

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Yea your martial arts is just going to be a cardio workout which will make you even more skinny.


If I can't get into a gym its back to the basics, pushups (good real ones, with my feet up on a couch), pullups, dips, hyperextentions (off anything you can find), one legged squats and lunges, just anything. If you are starting off you may not be able to do this, but for my shoulders I do a wallstand do reps up and down. Lat raising milk jugs works too for shoulders. Hell you can figure out a program that uses your body weight, milk jugs full of water, and bags of sand if you take the time. Once you can get a membership at a gym though, GET IN!
 

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ApC23 said:
I got in free this week with my friend, i loved it, ive been sore all week.
You like being sore? Isn't that akin to liking to have knee scrapes? "man scabs are COOL!"
 

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Yea your martial arts is just going to be a cardio workout which will make you even more skinny.
Depends on the martial art. I make gains on pads and wrestling all the time.
 

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Find a way to put weight to your push ups, dips, etc
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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