"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No girl friend:(

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My name is Rico and I am a mechanical engineer. I am always nice to every woman and treat them like special:)

-I am very skinny and not fat

-I make 5 figure salary!

-I like reading and studying and golf

-I am introvert and shy but there are woman like that too

-I have a lot of the female friends

-I try reading the DJ bible but it is too mean to woman

-I try to be nice to my friends but they do not want to be my girl friend

Why do I have no girl friend?

:(

I will do anything you say:( :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Today I try 'cold approach' and I said hello to a beautiful college student even though I am 30. I thought I am being brave. But then I follow her around to keep talking to her and she say I am a 'epic loser'.

She breaks my heart every time i think of her so I want to win her back and make her mine:)
 
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MisterAFC said:
-I try reading the DJ bible but it is too mean to woman

I will do anything you say:( :(
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No you won't, right there you said you read the dj bible, but you don't want to follow what it says? I'm afraid we can't help you if you're not willing to make changes. Too many guys only want to hear what makes them feel comfortable and not the truth.
 
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MisterAFC said:
I will do anything you say:( :(
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Get out, come back when you change your attitude to "I will listen to and take your advice but I will not do anything you say"

Also man, get over any oneitis you have, the last one I had turned out to be a manipulative and cunning b1tch, yeah, I'm lucky I avoided anything with her.
 
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Okay, well you need to change, and more importantly you need to want to change. Change is work and it is sacrifice, so sacrifice your useless ideals about women and burn them. Learn what women are really like and not what you want them to be like. Perception is malleable to say the least and yours has been seriously bent by bad romance movies and advice from terrible human beings. You're also probably willfully blind.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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