"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No girl friend:(

MisterAFC

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My name is Rico and I am a mechanical engineer. I am always nice to every woman and treat them like special:)

-I am very skinny and not fat

-I make 5 figure salary!

-I like reading and studying and golf

-I am introvert and shy but there are woman like that too

-I have a lot of the female friends

-I try reading the DJ bible but it is too mean to woman

-I try to be nice to my friends but they do not want to be my girl friend

Why do I have no girl friend?

:(

I will do anything you say:( :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MisterAFC

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Today I try 'cold approach' and I said hello to a beautiful college student even though I am 30. I thought I am being brave. But then I follow her around to keep talking to her and she say I am a 'epic loser'.

She breaks my heart every time i think of her so I want to win her back and make her mine:)
 

Fly By Night

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MisterAFC said:
-I try reading the DJ bible but it is too mean to woman

I will do anything you say:( :(
No you won't, right there you said you read the dj bible, but you don't want to follow what it says? I'm afraid we can't help you if you're not willing to make changes. Too many guys only want to hear what makes them feel comfortable and not the truth.
 

nroug7

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MisterAFC said:
I will do anything you say:( :(
Get out, come back when you change your attitude to "I will listen to and take your advice but I will not do anything you say"

Also man, get over any oneitis you have, the last one I had turned out to be a manipulative and cunning b1tch, yeah, I'm lucky I avoided anything with her.
 

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Okay, well you need to change, and more importantly you need to want to change. Change is work and it is sacrifice, so sacrifice your useless ideals about women and burn them. Learn what women are really like and not what you want them to be like. Perception is malleable to say the least and yours has been seriously bent by bad romance movies and advice from terrible human beings. You're also probably willfully blind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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