"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No girl friend:(

MisterAFC

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My name is Rico and I am a mechanical engineer. I am always nice to every woman and treat them like special:)

-I am very skinny and not fat

-I make 5 figure salary!

-I like reading and studying and golf

-I am introvert and shy but there are woman like that too

-I have a lot of the female friends

-I try reading the DJ bible but it is too mean to woman

-I try to be nice to my friends but they do not want to be my girl friend

Why do I have no girl friend?

:(

I will do anything you say:( :(
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MisterAFC

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Today I try 'cold approach' and I said hello to a beautiful college student even though I am 30. I thought I am being brave. But then I follow her around to keep talking to her and she say I am a 'epic loser'.

She breaks my heart every time i think of her so I want to win her back and make her mine:)
 

Fly By Night

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MisterAFC said:
-I try reading the DJ bible but it is too mean to woman

I will do anything you say:( :(
No you won't, right there you said you read the dj bible, but you don't want to follow what it says? I'm afraid we can't help you if you're not willing to make changes. Too many guys only want to hear what makes them feel comfortable and not the truth.
 

nroug7

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MisterAFC said:
I will do anything you say:( :(
Get out, come back when you change your attitude to "I will listen to and take your advice but I will not do anything you say"

Also man, get over any oneitis you have, the last one I had turned out to be a manipulative and cunning b1tch, yeah, I'm lucky I avoided anything with her.
 

Kbomb

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Okay, well you need to change, and more importantly you need to want to change. Change is work and it is sacrifice, so sacrifice your useless ideals about women and burn them. Learn what women are really like and not what you want them to be like. Perception is malleable to say the least and yours has been seriously bent by bad romance movies and advice from terrible human beings. You're also probably willfully blind.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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