"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No Gift On My Bday ...

ez123

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HELLO MY BDAY WAS DEC 4TH.... WE DATING FOR 6 MONTHS. NOW -
TILL TODAY NO GIFT BUT SHE SAYS ITS COMING..


WHY DIDNT SHE SEND IT EARLIER ...

SHES IN SCHOOL AND WORKS FULL TIME 2 JOBS..


DEC 3RD.. AT 12 @ NITE
I TOLD HER THANKS FOR TELLING HAPPY BDAY ..
AND SHE WAS @ A CHRISTMAS PARTY.
ALL NITE I WAS WAITING TILL 6 N THE MORNING FOR HER CALL

WE WERE TEXTING BAK N FORTH

SHE SAY I LOVE YOU

I CALL YOU N A MIN

OR GIVE ME A FEW ILL CALL


LOVE YOUU..
BLAK BLA BLA

I SAY HURY UP IMA FALL ASLEEEP
SHE SAY WAIT ILL CALL YOU

ALL THE WAY TILL 6. N THE MORNING NO CALL


I SLEEP I WAKE UP 11.ISH..


I TEXTED HER AGNRY .. N MAD

SHE SAID SRRRYY SORY SORY BLA BLA BLA


.. AND STILL NO GIFT SHE SAID SHE WILL SEND. IT

SHES BUSY WITH WORK N STUFF.


WHAT DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU YOU ALL ?



N LAST NITE SHES SAYS I NEED A BREAK..




CAUSE WE BEEN AT EACHOTHERS THROATS DAY N DAY OUT ABOUT IT.

AND I BEEN ON HER ABOUT FACEBOOK... ABOUT GUYS N STUFF ON HER PAGE..





WHAT YOU GUYS THINK ...


NOW I HAVE NOT CONTACTED HER SINCE LAST NITE...

AFTER SHE SAID SHE NEEDS A BREAK..


WHATS THE NEXT STEPP..



OK THANKS.. PLEASE REPLY ASAP.. THANK YOU ALL. :nono: :nono: :nono:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pipe007

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wow, your post makes no sense... I hope you don't talk the way you write because if you do, that would be an indicator of why your girl is dumping you soon and already cheating on you (emotionally if not physically)

anyway, you never had a relationship with this girl, she is not your girl, and she is not interested in you.

relationship is over.

dont ask advise on a girl who was never yours...
and keep waiting for your BDay gift lol... you might wanna sit down while you wait cuz you might get tired...

peace!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe Stud

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nothin for nothin, but isn't it usually the girl who complains: "you forgot my b-day"?

live your life like an alpha, no time for sweating what women do, dont do, or say. you got better things to do.

ps... the lack of a b-day gift (or call back) in it of itself is not a "deal breaker". However the fact that she DID not think of you enough to do so speaks volumes. Shes not that into you. sorry bro
 

WaterTiger

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Gentlemen! Please remember not every poster on this site is a native English speaker. Oddly written posts like this makes he think this fellow hasn't spent much time in an ESL class...
....But the all caps thing is a little annoying.
 

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Hello,

Nice to hear fm you.

It good that she and what??

Anyway,

Best





of





Luck.






By



e.
 

horaholic

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What a needy little bytch you are!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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