"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No Gift On My Bday ...

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HELLO MY BDAY WAS DEC 4TH.... WE DATING FOR 6 MONTHS. NOW -
TILL TODAY NO GIFT BUT SHE SAYS ITS COMING..


WHY DIDNT SHE SEND IT EARLIER ...

SHES IN SCHOOL AND WORKS FULL TIME 2 JOBS..


DEC 3RD.. AT 12 @ NITE
I TOLD HER THANKS FOR TELLING HAPPY BDAY ..
AND SHE WAS @ A CHRISTMAS PARTY.
ALL NITE I WAS WAITING TILL 6 N THE MORNING FOR HER CALL

WE WERE TEXTING BAK N FORTH

SHE SAY I LOVE YOU

I CALL YOU N A MIN

OR GIVE ME A FEW ILL CALL


LOVE YOUU..
BLAK BLA BLA

I SAY HURY UP IMA FALL ASLEEEP
SHE SAY WAIT ILL CALL YOU

ALL THE WAY TILL 6. N THE MORNING NO CALL


I SLEEP I WAKE UP 11.ISH..


I TEXTED HER AGNRY .. N MAD

SHE SAID SRRRYY SORY SORY BLA BLA BLA


.. AND STILL NO GIFT SHE SAID SHE WILL SEND. IT

SHES BUSY WITH WORK N STUFF.


WHAT DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU YOU ALL ?



N LAST NITE SHES SAYS I NEED A BREAK..




CAUSE WE BEEN AT EACHOTHERS THROATS DAY N DAY OUT ABOUT IT.

AND I BEEN ON HER ABOUT FACEBOOK... ABOUT GUYS N STUFF ON HER PAGE..





WHAT YOU GUYS THINK ...


NOW I HAVE NOT CONTACTED HER SINCE LAST NITE...

AFTER SHE SAID SHE NEEDS A BREAK..


WHATS THE NEXT STEPP..



OK THANKS.. PLEASE REPLY ASAP.. THANK YOU ALL. :nono: :nono: :nono:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pipe007

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wow, your post makes no sense... I hope you don't talk the way you write because if you do, that would be an indicator of why your girl is dumping you soon and already cheating on you (emotionally if not physically)

anyway, you never had a relationship with this girl, she is not your girl, and she is not interested in you.

relationship is over.

dont ask advise on a girl who was never yours...
and keep waiting for your BDay gift lol... you might wanna sit down while you wait cuz you might get tired...

peace!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joe Stud

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nothin for nothin, but isn't it usually the girl who complains: "you forgot my b-day"?

live your life like an alpha, no time for sweating what women do, dont do, or say. you got better things to do.

ps... the lack of a b-day gift (or call back) in it of itself is not a "deal breaker". However the fact that she DID not think of you enough to do so speaks volumes. Shes not that into you. sorry bro
 

WaterTiger

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Gentlemen! Please remember not every poster on this site is a native English speaker. Oddly written posts like this makes he think this fellow hasn't spent much time in an ESL class...
....But the all caps thing is a little annoying.
 

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Hello,

Nice to hear fm you.

It good that she and what??

Anyway,

Best





of





Luck.






By



e.
 

horaholic

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What a needy little bytch you are!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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