"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No Gift On My Bday ...

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HELLO MY BDAY WAS DEC 4TH.... WE DATING FOR 6 MONTHS. NOW -
TILL TODAY NO GIFT BUT SHE SAYS ITS COMING..


WHY DIDNT SHE SEND IT EARLIER ...

SHES IN SCHOOL AND WORKS FULL TIME 2 JOBS..


DEC 3RD.. AT 12 @ NITE
I TOLD HER THANKS FOR TELLING HAPPY BDAY ..
AND SHE WAS @ A CHRISTMAS PARTY.
ALL NITE I WAS WAITING TILL 6 N THE MORNING FOR HER CALL

WE WERE TEXTING BAK N FORTH

SHE SAY I LOVE YOU

I CALL YOU N A MIN

OR GIVE ME A FEW ILL CALL


LOVE YOUU..
BLAK BLA BLA

I SAY HURY UP IMA FALL ASLEEEP
SHE SAY WAIT ILL CALL YOU

ALL THE WAY TILL 6. N THE MORNING NO CALL


I SLEEP I WAKE UP 11.ISH..


I TEXTED HER AGNRY .. N MAD

SHE SAID SRRRYY SORY SORY BLA BLA BLA


.. AND STILL NO GIFT SHE SAID SHE WILL SEND. IT

SHES BUSY WITH WORK N STUFF.


WHAT DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU YOU ALL ?



N LAST NITE SHES SAYS I NEED A BREAK..




CAUSE WE BEEN AT EACHOTHERS THROATS DAY N DAY OUT ABOUT IT.

AND I BEEN ON HER ABOUT FACEBOOK... ABOUT GUYS N STUFF ON HER PAGE..





WHAT YOU GUYS THINK ...


NOW I HAVE NOT CONTACTED HER SINCE LAST NITE...

AFTER SHE SAID SHE NEEDS A BREAK..


WHATS THE NEXT STEPP..



OK THANKS.. PLEASE REPLY ASAP.. THANK YOU ALL. :nono: :nono: :nono:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wow, your post makes no sense... I hope you don't talk the way you write because if you do, that would be an indicator of why your girl is dumping you soon and already cheating on you (emotionally if not physically)

anyway, you never had a relationship with this girl, she is not your girl, and she is not interested in you.

relationship is over.

dont ask advise on a girl who was never yours...
and keep waiting for your BDay gift lol... you might wanna sit down while you wait cuz you might get tired...

peace!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nothin for nothin, but isn't it usually the girl who complains: "you forgot my b-day"?

live your life like an alpha, no time for sweating what women do, dont do, or say. you got better things to do.

ps... the lack of a b-day gift (or call back) in it of itself is not a "deal breaker". However the fact that she DID not think of you enough to do so speaks volumes. Shes not that into you. sorry bro
 
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Gentlemen! Please remember not every poster on this site is a native English speaker. Oddly written posts like this makes he think this fellow hasn't spent much time in an ESL class...
....But the all caps thing is a little annoying.
 
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Hello,

Nice to hear fm you.

It good that she and what??

Anyway,

Best





of





Luck.






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What a needy little bytch you are!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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