"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No gf for 11 years and fapping a lot

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Honestly, if you don't fap, that might do more harm than good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JaegerPilot217 said:
i'd say act on it, George Sodini went 25 years without a girlfriend, he hadn't had one since 1984, committed suicide in 2009, well we all know the story
The Dalai Lama hasn't had sex for........more than 25 years.

He's still alive and doing quite well. Never shot no-one neither.
 

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I would try no-fap but theres no way I can get a girl at my college, so I would still be hurting in the long run
 

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Stop masturbating and work on your inner core, your morals. Best way to gain confidence.
 

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The Dalai Lama hasn't had sex for........more than 25 years.

He's still alive and doing quite well. Never shot no-one neither.
Its like men have to make other things in their life a higher priority than getting laid, things that are boring in my opinion
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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user name said:
The Dalai Lama hasn't had sex for........more than 25 years.

He's still alive and doing quite well. Never shot no-one neither.
Newton and Vivaldi never had sex either and they made great contributions to society with their science and music.

In George Sodini's case, a few things do not make sense to me. First of all, he only went after young women so he could have got a woman if he settled. Second of all, the women he specifically targeted and shot were not the same women, exactly, who rejected him. So, it's not like he had a crush on one particular woman, she didn't take him on and rejected him, and he went and killed her and himself. He went on a random rampage killing woman that had nothing to do with his own life. So, that's not really rational on many different levels to bring up as an example on this thread.
 

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corrector said:
Newton and Vivaldi never had sex either and they made great contributions to society with their science and music.

In George Sodini's case, a few things do not make sense to me. First of all, he only went after young women so he could have got a woman if he settled. Second of all, the women he specifically targeted and shot were not the same women, exactly, who rejected him. So, it's not like he had a crush on one particular woman, she didn't take him on and rejected him, and he went and killed her and himself. He went on a random rampage killing woman that had nothing to do with his own life. So, that's not really rational on many different levels to bring up as an example on this thread.
Then I wonder why George didn't target young 20 something women, also, he was 48 years of age, and yet many people argue that it supposedly gets better for men as they age, get older, as in young women in their 20's find men over age 35 to be very attractive
 

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Stopping fapping is not a cure. You're looking for a scapegoat to blame for not being who you want to be. Change your attitude, your persona. Learn some skills, man! Instill some value in yourself by getting good at something.

Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
 

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VladPatton said:
Stopping fapping is not a cure. You're looking for a scapegoat to blame for not being who you want to be. Change your attitude, your persona. Learn some skills, man! Instill some value in yourself by getting good at something.

Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
You see, that is exactly what I mean, it's never a woman's fault but it is always a mans fault, women are never or rarely held accountable, never have to take responsibility for their situation and problems
 
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