Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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No gf for 11 years and fapping a lot

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Honestly, if you don't fap, that might do more harm than good.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JaegerPilot217 said:
i'd say act on it, George Sodini went 25 years without a girlfriend, he hadn't had one since 1984, committed suicide in 2009, well we all know the story
The Dalai Lama hasn't had sex for........more than 25 years.

He's still alive and doing quite well. Never shot no-one neither.
 

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I would try no-fap but theres no way I can get a girl at my college, so I would still be hurting in the long run
 

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Stop masturbating and work on your inner core, your morals. Best way to gain confidence.
 

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The Dalai Lama hasn't had sex for........more than 25 years.

He's still alive and doing quite well. Never shot no-one neither.
Its like men have to make other things in their life a higher priority than getting laid, things that are boring in my opinion
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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user name said:
The Dalai Lama hasn't had sex for........more than 25 years.

He's still alive and doing quite well. Never shot no-one neither.
Newton and Vivaldi never had sex either and they made great contributions to society with their science and music.

In George Sodini's case, a few things do not make sense to me. First of all, he only went after young women so he could have got a woman if he settled. Second of all, the women he specifically targeted and shot were not the same women, exactly, who rejected him. So, it's not like he had a crush on one particular woman, she didn't take him on and rejected him, and he went and killed her and himself. He went on a random rampage killing woman that had nothing to do with his own life. So, that's not really rational on many different levels to bring up as an example on this thread.
 

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corrector said:
Newton and Vivaldi never had sex either and they made great contributions to society with their science and music.

In George Sodini's case, a few things do not make sense to me. First of all, he only went after young women so he could have got a woman if he settled. Second of all, the women he specifically targeted and shot were not the same women, exactly, who rejected him. So, it's not like he had a crush on one particular woman, she didn't take him on and rejected him, and he went and killed her and himself. He went on a random rampage killing woman that had nothing to do with his own life. So, that's not really rational on many different levels to bring up as an example on this thread.
Then I wonder why George didn't target young 20 something women, also, he was 48 years of age, and yet many people argue that it supposedly gets better for men as they age, get older, as in young women in their 20's find men over age 35 to be very attractive
 

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Stopping fapping is not a cure. You're looking for a scapegoat to blame for not being who you want to be. Change your attitude, your persona. Learn some skills, man! Instill some value in yourself by getting good at something.

Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
 

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VladPatton said:
Stopping fapping is not a cure. You're looking for a scapegoat to blame for not being who you want to be. Change your attitude, your persona. Learn some skills, man! Instill some value in yourself by getting good at something.

Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
You see, that is exactly what I mean, it's never a woman's fault but it is always a mans fault, women are never or rarely held accountable, never have to take responsibility for their situation and problems
 
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