HyperAnalyze
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Honestly, if you don't fap, that might do more harm than good.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No gf for 11 years and fapping a lot
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dhoulmagus
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I would try no-fap but theres no way I can get a girl at my college, so I would still be hurting in the long run
JaegerPilot217
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Its like men have to make other things in their life a higher priority than getting laid, things that are boring in my opinionuser name said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
corrector
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Newton and Vivaldi never had sex either and they made great contributions to society with their science and music.user name said:
In George Sodini's case, a few things do not make sense to me. First of all, he only went after young women so he could have got a woman if he settled. Second of all, the women he specifically targeted and shot were not the same women, exactly, who rejected him. So, it's not like he had a crush on one particular woman, she didn't take him on and rejected him, and he went and killed her and himself. He went on a random rampage killing woman that had nothing to do with his own life. So, that's not really rational on many different levels to bring up as an example on this thread.
JaegerPilot217
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Then I wonder why George didn't target young 20 something women, also, he was 48 years of age, and yet many people argue that it supposedly gets better for men as they age, get older, as in young women in their 20's find men over age 35 to be very attractivecorrector said:
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Stopping fapping is not a cure. You're looking for a scapegoat to blame for not being who you want to be. Change your attitude, your persona. Learn some skills, man! Instill some value in yourself by getting good at something.
Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
JaegerPilot217
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You see, that is exactly what I mean, it's never a woman's fault but it is always a mans fault, women are never or rarely held accountable, never have to take responsibility for their situation and problemsVladPatton said: