HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
Honestly, if you don't fap, that might do more harm than good.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No gf for 11 years and fapping a lot
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dhoulmagus
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I would try no-fap but theres no way I can get a girl at my college, so I would still be hurting in the long run
JaegerPilot217
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Its like men have to make other things in their life a higher priority than getting laid, things that are boring in my opinionuser name said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
corrector
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Newton and Vivaldi never had sex either and they made great contributions to society with their science and music.user name said:
In George Sodini's case, a few things do not make sense to me. First of all, he only went after young women so he could have got a woman if he settled. Second of all, the women he specifically targeted and shot were not the same women, exactly, who rejected him. So, it's not like he had a crush on one particular woman, she didn't take him on and rejected him, and he went and killed her and himself. He went on a random rampage killing woman that had nothing to do with his own life. So, that's not really rational on many different levels to bring up as an example on this thread.
JaegerPilot217
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Then I wonder why George didn't target young 20 something women, also, he was 48 years of age, and yet many people argue that it supposedly gets better for men as they age, get older, as in young women in their 20's find men over age 35 to be very attractivecorrector said:
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Stopping fapping is not a cure. You're looking for a scapegoat to blame for not being who you want to be. Change your attitude, your persona. Learn some skills, man! Instill some value in yourself by getting good at something.
Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
Having your nuts fill with ball batter only to come out through a nocturnal emission is not an answer. You'll wake up with Dannon yogurt in your undies. And no, women can't smell it on you, stop being mystical and be pragmatic.
JaegerPilot217
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You see, that is exactly what I mean, it's never a woman's fault but it is always a mans fault, women are never or rarely held accountable, never have to take responsibility for their situation and problemsVladPatton said: