"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There's no need for discussion on this considering the fact I have sporadic PSI abilities and have it documented and recorded.
Was your psychic abilities activated whilst undergoing no-fap?

If so that's one major super power.

Tell us how you teleported to another plane of existence..and what's it like over there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OP, perhaps you should have created this thread with a claim such as, “desire acted upon is an energy which affects others’ desires,” and then slowly build your case.

The way you presented your info appears fallacious in so many regards with the largest fallacy being B does not follow A as they are unrelated.
 

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OP, perhaps you should have created this thread with a claim such as, “desire acted upon is an energy which affects others’ desires,” and then slowly build your case.

The way you presented your info appears fallacious in so many regards with the largest fallacy being B does not follow A as they are unrelated.
Explain the desire acted upon principle and how it works.
 

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Explain the desire acted upon principle and how it works.
That's not my claim, it's OP's . I'm just trying to help him along in his thought process to make stronger claims in the future.

I do believe in energies though. For example, the IDGAF vibe is a certain energy of (no) intent that you put forward which is an elixir to most women ... "swag" as you call it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That's not my claim, it's OP's . I'm just trying to help him along in his thought process to make stronger claims in the future.

I do believe in energies though. For example, the IDGAF vibe is a certain energy of (no) intent that you put forward which is an elixir to most women ... "swag" as you call it.
There are different swags though. Basically it means energy. Shes a fool for a sexual swag combined with IDGAF.
 

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There are different swags though. Basically it means energy. Shes a fool for a sexual swag combined with IDGAF.
All swag and the way you carry yourself boils down to desire and thinking. I see the benefit of no fap for some to the extent that it alters your desire and thinking (as you have less desire to fap in time) so you release your thirst bucket. Take a guy like BigDave who masturbates all day. Take away his desire to masturbate through conditioning and he wouldn't project himself as such a desperado and repulse women. But for men who get sex regularly, to fap or not to fap is not as relevant.

As to Tinder where they can’t see your swag, I see little to no correlation.
 

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I bought a lottery ticket every year in the last 2 years for xmas and never managed to get the top prize, I'll try no fap next december.
 

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All swag and the way you carry yourself boils down to desire and thinking. I see the benefit of no fap for some to the extent that it alters your desire and thinking (as you have less desire to fap in time) so you release your thirst bucket. Take a guy like BigDave who masturbates all day. Take away his desire to masturbate through conditioning and he wouldn't project himself as such a desperado and repulse women. But for men who get sex regularly, to fap or not to fap is not as relevant.

As to Tinder where they can’t see your swag, I see little to no correlation.
So, there is a benefit if you are not getting women? I can see that as possible.

Like you I see no correlation for Tinder though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You guys are not well versed on the scientific literature of quantum mechanics
 

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This doesn't even make any sense. Somehow the computer algorithm knew you didn't jack off so it showed the photos to random women that they had no idea if you'd match with or not but did so in a way that was different some how because it knew you stopped jacking off?

Do you see how idiotic this sounds?
 

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I haven't fapped in 2 days and I haven't received any Tinder matches.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I haven't fapped in 2 days and I haven't received any Tinder matches.
Amazing how otherwise rational people would come up with such nonsense when all of this can simply be due to probablitlies and random chance.
 

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You guys are not well versed on the scientific literature of quantum mechanics
I have serious doubts that you majored or even learned either chemistry or physics whilst in school to be talking about quantum mechanics.

No way a man learned in the sciences would be this delusional.
 

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I have serious doubts that you majored or even learned either chemistry or physics whilst in school to be talking about quantum mechanics.

No way a man learned in the sciences would be this delusional.
So newton einstein and many others don't hold up to your standards?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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