"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No Fap Challenge Progress

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day 6.

Last night I was SO close to giving in.

I was looking at pics of hot girls and oh man, SO CLOSE.

I didnt though. I threw my phone and went to sleep.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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day 7.......................


one whole week.

man, I don't think i've gone a whole week without fapping since i was like 8 years old
 

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Started over again but I'm on day 4 now. Coasting for now.
 

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Right, I haven't done this is a while and its good to do it now and then so. I usually manage to get to 2 weeks.

So...
Day 1 right here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well. One thing lead to another.

I fapped.

Total length of NoFap: 8 days

Thoughts: Its really damn difficult. And now I feel like sh1t because I fapped. 8 days down the drain. Thats the longest i've ever gone NoFap for. I am determined to go longer now.

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No fap day 1.

This time I will NOT look at porn.

During the last 2 days I was looking at porn and trying not fap. Well that what eventually fvcked me up.

So for this duration I WILL NOT look at porn.

noP, noM, noO!
 

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Day 8. I feel a huge weight on my balls, requesting release. What am I doing this for again? Lol..
 

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As far as an initial hard-wire reset, 2-3 weeks should do it for fap-induced ED. After those 2-3 weeks, one nut a week isn't an issue. Just don't do it with porn. The porn is what de-sensitizes you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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j.619 said:
As far as an initial hard-wire reset, 2-3 weeks should do it for fap-induced ED. After those 2-3 weeks, one nut a week isn't an issue. Just don't do it with porn. The porn is what de-sensitizes you.
I'll set the target to 2 weeks then. Challenge accepted :rockon:
 

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Day 5

I went 60+ days before and felt spectacular so I know what to look forward to and want that feeling back. Meditating, eating clean food and drinking lots of water help. Guys also need to study sexually transmutation. If the sexual energy isn't used and put towards something useful it will eat you alive. Keep yourself busy! Sitting around and actually having time to masturbate is a sign of inactivity in your lifestyle. What else could you be accomplishing with the time your masturbating mentally and physically.

Started reading this book "Celibacy and Transmutation of sexual energy for deeper meditation". Kindle version is only 2.99 off amazon and I highly recommend it for getting the bigger picture and tips for best results while trying to kick what is essentially an addiction.
 

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Day 4 , got some huge temptations.

Summary: i noticed that i have increase amount of energy, and i noticed more women desires.

What i am assuming here is, that when you don't fap your testosteron level increase and you are becoming more aware of women. Like you get in more concetrated state of awarness to women desires.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Relaxs said:
Day 4 , got some huge temptations.

Summary: i noticed that i have increase amount of energy, and i noticed more women desires.

What i am assuming here is, that when you don't fap your testosteron level increase and you are becoming more aware of women. Like you get in more concetrated state of awarness to women desires.
Interesting insight. From reading around, your testosterone level peaks at day 7-10 of no fapping, after that it decreases and comes back at day 14-20 and so forth.

Heck, after fapping 3-4 times daily I must stop. Joining in.

Day 1
 

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CerwinVegaFan said:
Interesting insight. From reading around, your testosterone level peaks at day 7-10 of no fapping, after that it decreases and comes back at day 14-20 and so forth.

Heck, after fapping 3-4 times daily I must stop. Joining in.

Day 1
I think I'm in Day 8 right now(lost count) and I'm having this experience. There's huge temptations but for some reason I think I'm pulling through.
 

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Day 4, wanted a fap over Ellen Page (actress) earlier but resisted. Nothing else to note so far.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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